Guys, what goes through your mind during sex?
Posted Fri Oct 30, 2009 01:39 AM
I know right as I am about to put it in, I sorta start thinking about the last time I lost my boner and then that kills it. Just a number of random thoughts that I cant stop from entering my head.
So, what I am asking is, what do you guys concentrate on right before or during sex? Is there something that just calms you down and makes you enjoy every second of it? Tell me details, general statements like "just chill out" isnt going to help.
Posted Fri Oct 30, 2009 03:39 AM
Posted Fri Oct 30, 2009 08:52 AM
But mostly it is just as much a physical as psychological.
A sort of zen clearing of the mind.
Being in the moment and no where else in my head.
The two of us becoming one entity.
Maybe practice tantric or kama sutra techniques to help your mind reach this state.
From this and your previous thread, I think your issue may be anxiety related to your performance.
I agree, not an easy thing to overcome, but very possible.
Maybe even a sex therapist should be consulted for more detailed answer.
Posted Fri Oct 30, 2009 09:16 AM
Posted Fri Oct 30, 2009 10:08 AM
but seriously folks...it depends. but yeah......
Posted Fri Oct 30, 2009 10:14 AM
Dr. Callipygous said:
sounds about right for mee:winner:
problem staying hard? you need more foreplay. handjobs are for my parents generation! i'd rather chain her to the wall and lick every inch of her body.
Posted Fri Oct 30, 2009 11:48 PM
Posted Sat Oct 31, 2009 03:18 PM
Same here, is more like throught the head goes "nothing", or well, at least not something I could easily put into words-- Just loving it, with my senses simply just put into it-- I don't realy think "Oh, this is nice!", just feel it and my sex speech is mostly things like "shit!" "fuck!" "God!" which just says a lot and "nothing" at the same time