Do you think a 3some can hurt your relationship?
Posted Wed Nov 04, 2009 07:57 PM
Posted Wed Nov 04, 2009 09:04 PM
Posted Wed Nov 04, 2009 09:07 PM
hard to predict
on my book, only feasible if all involved are very comfortable
Posted Wed Nov 04, 2009 09:22 PM
Why do you want to do a threesome? If it's just to be with another girl why not mess around with another girl and let your bf watch, not touch her though and perhaps he will be fine with that and not worried about problems cropping up later in regards to a threesome.
Posted Wed Nov 04, 2009 11:15 PM
Posted Wed Nov 04, 2009 11:36 PM
Posted Wed Nov 04, 2009 11:38 PM
Posted Thu Nov 05, 2009 12:42 AM
I would like to do it but not in the immediate future.
Posted Thu Nov 05, 2009 10:07 AM
Posted Thu Nov 05, 2009 10:28 AM
Unfortunately, the one that took place while I was married, end result, I am not married anymore! It was just to hard. I can not watch my SO be with someone else, and the majority of people are the same way!
Meanwhile, the one I had when I was single was amazing. We were all single went out partying one night came home and had a freaking blast! BUT in this situation no feelings all friends, alcohol was involved, and we went in knowing it was for pure fun and enjoyment!
Just and FYI both of my experiences were MFF...and I say I am all for it if your not in serious relationship, but if you are, I wouldn't suggest it, especially if you already have doubts as everyone else said!
Posted Thu Nov 05, 2009 11:06 AM
yeah, we tried it once. after talking it out the terms were:
i could touch my girlfriend. i could have my eyes open.
and she could do whatever she wanted.
so basically, i agreed to let her fuck some random chick and be the third wheel. didnt go down so good, they were both shy and really.... boring.. vanilla...
and then the girl has the audacity to say i was trying to touch her while we were sleeping. granted i was naked with my girlfriend and the other chick was wearing clothes, but what the hell- it's MY fuckin bed and MY apartment. maybe my hands wandered in my sleep- oops.. wtf you want me to say, i feel skin and i touch, i thought it was my girlfriend i guess. i think she said i rubbed her ass...
that was that. no interest in 3 somes for me unless it's without restriction and without burden, shame or anyone's feelings being hurt.
i wont try it again ever with my girlfriend and one of her friends. we are going on vacation in january and maybe we could hook up with a random stranger we meet on the beach or something. i think that'd be better, especially since I don't think ill be sober for any of the 5 days we'll be there.