i need advice...badly
Posted Sun Nov 15, 2009 03:33 AM
it started out hella romantic n shit, like taking eachothers clothes off slowly, me holdiing her, etc...well when i finally asked her for the last time "r u sure u want to do this?", she said yes...so i started...i got about half way in, and she starts balling, and screaming, and yet she told me to keep going...so i go in about 1/4 of an inch more, and she starts screaming, so we stopped...
well i guess my question is, is it normal for it to hurt a girl THAT much to lose her virginity? and if so, is their any way possible to make it less painful??
Posted Sun Nov 15, 2009 04:01 AM
and sometimes its just ok to not stop.
Posted Sun Nov 15, 2009 05:21 AM
also, you don't have to go whole hog the first time. a little bit at a time sounds good, wish i'd done it like that.
Posted Sun Nov 15, 2009 10:41 AM
Posted Sun Nov 15, 2009 10:47 AM
Also how much foreplay did you do before penetration?
Take it slow and eventually it will feel better.
Posted Sun Nov 15, 2009 12:40 PM
Posted Sun Nov 15, 2009 02:42 PM
That takes an admirable amount of self control.
Especialy with her saying to keep going.
Take your time, lots of foreplay to relax her and get her own juices flowing. Use some lube too and loosen her up finger by finger. Even try a small thin vibrator that will not only juice her up and relax her when first used on her clit, but will also open her up a little.
I hope that helps you both enjoy it better.
Posted Sun Nov 15, 2009 02:58 PM
Kiss, explore, tease... and do it until you can feel her clit, labia, and walls of the vagina engorge and get wet. Before you even start with that, take care of the emotional aspect of her, and continue to do so throughout the encounter.
And give her some time to recover from the first time. It may be emotionally as well as physically overwhelming to her.