problem keeping an erection - wtf?
Posted Sat Jan 14, 2006 03:09 AM
I'm 19 and recently have started having sex with my girl. She's my first and prior to that the only action I got was of the self serving kind. The problem is that we've done it about 4-5 times now and I haven't been able to cum yet. It happens when she jerks me off but otherwise I just can't seem to get in the zone when I'm in her. She thinks its because of me not being used to condoms yet, and we have tried it without and I must say I've come a lot closer to an orgasm than before. But still, I'm not sure if that's the only reason. Each time I'm pumping in her, gradually I begin to shrink and slip out and then she has to jerk me back to full size. Its frustrating and embarassing and I'm beginning to feel completely ashamed of myself. She turns me on like crazy but I just can't understand why I'm unable to stay fully erect. It could be that I'm nervous because I begin to think I'm underperforming and that causes me to shrink. I'm also uncircumcized so maybe that has something to do with it? I don't know, I have the feeling viagra could be in my future.
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Posted Sun Jan 15, 2006 12:40 AM
I do think its mostly a psychological problem I'm having, but I find it to be something thats hard for me to control...sometimes all it takes is a split second thought that my penis might be too small and then it all goes downhill from there, even though I know its big enough to pleasure her
I keep hoping all this will just go away in time but I dunno...I'm lucky that she's very understanding and supportive