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Posted Sat Jan 14, 2006 03:18 PM
I don't have enough info to put a finger on it, but it sounds like you are really conentrating on keeping yourself erect during sex. Let me ask you this, do you ever talk to yourself inside saying "c'mon stay hard!!...Don't get soft!! please!!!!!"?
Your partner seems very accepting and accomodating to you. Instead of trying to keep it going, try to become comfortable with yourself only climaxing once. When you don't feel pressured to perform further, maybe the problem will go away on it's own. Again, this is just guessing because I don't have enough info to say for sure. It could be a medical issue, could be outside stress, etc.
Have you talked to your partner? What was the response?
Any further info would be a big help!
Posted Sat Jan 14, 2006 03:29 PM
also i have been having sex with her up to 5 times in one night which again is pressure on me (but only see her once or twice a week )maybe il will ave to chill out and just try once a night then 2 and so on..till i can keep the old boy up on its own accord lol...
Posted Sat Jan 14, 2006 03:31 PM
5 times in what time span exactly? Plus what is your age?
Also, what do you find yourself fantasizing about?
Posted Sat Jan 14, 2006 03:34 PM
sex up to 5 times in a night ie up all night earli hours and fantasizing about things that help me get off ,,,
Posted Sat Jan 14, 2006 03:37 PM
Not really helping me out with the fantasy content. Is it about your partner or another person?
About the time span, is there 30 min-1hr gaps inbetween orgasms or are they one after the other back to back?
Posted Sat Jan 14, 2006 03:39 PM
One long, erotic, drawn-out session can be just a satisfying fro her, and not put as much of a strain on that overworked tool.
Posted Sat Jan 14, 2006 03:41 PM
Posted Sat Jan 14, 2006 03:43 PM
Can you think of anything that your last gf offered that this new one does not?
Maybe a sexual act the other one was better at? Breast size? Looks? Anything you can think of?
Posted Sat Jan 14, 2006 03:48 PM
The reason I ask is because if there is something that you used to get (whether a physical sensation or something you observed like her body/masturbating/performing in front of you) that you no longer do...it may add to the issue.
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Is that correct?