Is It Weird That...
Posted Mon Jan 16, 2006 02:15 AM
Posted Mon Jan 16, 2006 02:33 AM
As for the thing about showing her breasts: Phone and cam sex are ways of limiting access. They are ways of limiting sex. Yes, they can cross miles, but aside from that they can narrowly define what happens between two people.
As long as the two of you are limited to phone and cam sex, you may have to accept that this is the way she limits what you see and what the two of you do together. If showing you her breasts is outside of her comfort zone--for whatever reason--then she has found the perfect way to avoid doing it. Insisting that she show you more than she wants to will spoil the security she gets from this kind of limit, and might drive her away.
Posted Mon Jan 16, 2006 02:36 AM
Have the two of you ever met in person? If you have, then there is probably a different reason why she doesn't want more of her shown on camera. She might not want any identifiable pics of her floating around the web.
In fact, that might be the reason whether you've met or not.
Posted Mon Jan 16, 2006 02:37 AM
Posted Mon Jan 16, 2006 02:41 AM
"Because I'm a predator."