Need tips on "staying up"!
Posted Mon Jan 16, 2006 05:42 PM
First of all I am only 22...
OK, earlier on tonight I was with this georgious girl, great looks, great body.. We did oral (protected) which was fine but it took me an awful long time to get hard even though she was really stimulating me and teasing me. As a result, the sex had to be abandoned!
Anyway.. I need tips on how I can stay up longer, or reasons why I couldnt stay up! I will be seeing her again at the weekend.
Any info really REALLY appreciated!
Posted Mon Jan 16, 2006 05:54 PM
Posted Mon Jan 16, 2006 06:12 PM
Thanks for your reply!
I havnt known her that long, so maybe thats the issue?! Anyway.. leading up to Oral we did stroking, touching, fondling, kissing but even with all this it took a long time to get up! Regarding time and privacy.. Yes we both had that.
Normally if I am at home alone, I dont have any problems whatsoever.
Posted Tue Jan 17, 2006 09:09 AM
I always use protection. Why should I not use it? Isn't that a bit unsafe (for any sexual practice)???
Posted Tue Jan 17, 2006 09:40 AM
Posted Tue Jan 17, 2006 09:51 AM
Posted Tue Jan 17, 2006 09:59 AM
I think I know what you mean by "gender" ... self stimulation!
Regarding the protection, I think it maybe ok to do without ONLY when you both know and trust each other well... Which takes time.
Anyway thanks for the reply.
Edit: Just read the performance anxiety response: I think it could be this. It has happened before anyway when I was in a previous relationship, although I found that after we spent more time together it actually got easier.