I have been with my bf for a year now, we were both virgins before we started having sex about 9 months ago. We are both 20. Before we started dating I was not sexually active and rarely masturbated. The problem now is, I have never had an orgasm. Even after my bf has tried fingering my clit, giving me oral and having sex with me, I have never experienced an orgasm. I do really enjoy all of this and get much pleasure out of it still.
I began masturbating a couple months into our relationship with my bf's encouragment in hopes that I could make myself orgasm. I enjoy masturbating by massaging my clit, I can get a very intense feeling with lots of build-up and feel like I'm close and about to climax but nothing ever happens. I even squirt liquid while this is happening but still I do not orgasm. I am very frustrated, I have been masturbating for several months but I just can't climax. I would prefer not to turn to a vibrator, my bf already feels somewhat responsible for not being able to give me an orgasm and he has a fear that I will become "addicted" to it if it really works. I'm beginning to think something is wrong with me even though I have been my doctor and she said everything is fine. Is it normal to have such difficulty orgasming? What else can I try? I'm getting really impatient and frustrated. I feel like I'm at a dead end.
I just wanna cum!
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