Seeking advice on new techniques
Posted Tue Jan 24, 2006 08:08 PM
Now, I have already found some good ways to get my girlfriend to climax, such as the following:
- Oral sex (but of course)
- Rubbing her clit during intercourse
- Massaging her breasts or sucking her nipples during intercourse
- Circular motions with my penis during intercourse
I should point out that my girlfriend and I both dislike anal stimulation, and we don't care for feet either.
As you can see, I have a few limits on my options (even if they are self-imposed), and I feel like I'm covering a lot of the other basics. Please let me know if you have any suggestions.
Posted Tue Jan 24, 2006 08:19 PM
Posted Tue Jan 24, 2006 08:33 PM
I guess what I should really be asking is what other areas I could be spending more time stimulatiing. I've got the vagina, clit, and breasts covered, but I feel like I'm just hitting the common sense erogenous zones. I seem to remember an episode of Friends where they eluded to women having several erogenous zones. I do try to rub and kiss other areas on my girlfriends body, but I haven't been able to get a sense of whether stimulation to any other areas helps her to get off.
Posted Tue Jan 24, 2006 10:02 PM
Posted Tue Jan 24, 2006 10:12 PM
Sam Gray said:
Well, any sensual touching will make the experience nice and might intensify the pleasure for both of you. You don't have to limit yourself to a list of areas on her body--every woman is different. I suggest you spend some sessions paying attention to her body all over and discover her erogenous zones along with her.
As for getting a sense of it, I hope your relationship is at a point where you can let each other know what feels good, what's working, what you would like, etc. Talking, asking, guiding, making sounds--all of these things help. You both should do them, and you both should listen.
One more thing: I don't recommend getting your sex advice from episodes of Friends. For the record, I loathed that show.