She always wants harder and faster?? but thats the best i can do!
Posted Wed Dec 30, 2009 04:09 PM
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This post has been edited by GetOnIt: Wed Dec 30, 2009 04:30 PM
Posted Wed Dec 30, 2009 06:29 PM
Posted Wed Dec 30, 2009 06:39 PM
i think getonit is on it with the loads of foreplay and teasing her silly first suggestion.
Posted Wed Dec 30, 2009 07:16 PM
true. if she recently lost her virginity she obviously hasn't had a lot of time and experience to learn what makes her wild. Every woman is different. Be very vocal with her. talk dirty but incorporate some information gathering with it. u can ask her if something feels really good without her even realizing it, she'll just think it's dirty talk. exploring is a lot of fun, so take time to enjoy it!
Posted Thu Dec 31, 2009 06:08 AM
Well, my ex bf and I had a sex toy for this situation. We had a 8inch Doc Johnson realistic toy for sex, so after he'd cum/go limp/get tired etc etc, he'd pull out the toy and use that on me. That way, he could fuck me as fast/hard as he wanted, since he'd be holding it and not exhausting himself with all of the fucking I wanted. I'd suggest you buy a sex toy (dildo) for her.
I don't think there's anything wrong with her wanting it rough haha after all, she is new to it all and probably is finding out what she wants, which is to be pounded out haha.
Posted Thu Dec 31, 2009 08:11 AM
Posted Thu Dec 31, 2009 09:34 AM
2) Give her so much foreplay that when you penetrate her finally she flies to the skies. Give her oral until she's RIGHT on the verge of orgasm, then stop. Tease. Then plow into her and she'll orgasm and then you can make slow love while she climbs back down. It's usually easier for me to orgasm the second time, so maybe that would be the case for her as well.
My only other advice is - don't complain! I know a LOT of women who do not like it hard or rough. Sometimes it's even uncomfortable for ME to have it hard and rough, but i still like it. That's besides the point, however.
Posted Thu Dec 31, 2009 11:24 PM
Maybe everyone is missing the point even though she is inexperienced what feels good to her just feels good why does everyone think its because of porn that she wants it that way different people like different things I personally love it hard and fast as does my wife I don't like slow and easy sex but find nothing wrong with people that do its all about preference maybe the two of you are not going to be sexually compatible good luck
Posted Thu Dec 31, 2009 11:52 PM
Posted Fri Jan 01, 2010 07:34 PM
Posted Fri Jan 01, 2010 11:34 PM
Also, with the exercise and practice, you'll get better at the speed and strength thing.
I agree on the foreplay and her-on-top suggestions. It's not fair if you work to the point of being exhausted while she still has plenty of energy.
Posted Tue Jan 26, 2010 12:32 PM
Posted Tue Jan 26, 2010 12:51 PM
Exactly. Seems somewhat premature to start scapegoating porn at this point. Sounds like his GF simply likes the hard 'n fast way the same way some love soft and gentle. I've seen enough porn to last a few lifetimes, and yet there's a middle ground that gets settled on with some soft and hard to keep things from getting boring. Not everyone is going to be able to keep up with the pace she wants without fainting, blistering, or cumming to fast.
To the OP - does she do the same thing when she masturbates alone? She could just be used to being rough on herself. Or that her clit isn't as sensitive that she needs harder stimulation. Hell, you might be doing a good job of hitting the are where the Gspot is supposed to be. That'll take a lot harder penetration to really feel good.
Spend a day exploring her body with your fingers using different techniques and pressures to find out what she likes. That might help the both of you figure out more about herself.
Posted Tue Jan 26, 2010 01:52 PM
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Posted Thu Jan 28, 2010 01:37 AM
But it was not your problem it was frito112 problem.