Sex tips to share
Posted Tue Oct 26, 2004 08:10 PM
I have noticed that when i take my tongue and rub up and down in on the spot under his balls all the way to his ass crack, he seems to really get hard doing this.. I noticed he really enjoys this...
Something I like done to me is having my ass fingered while he bites very gently on my nipples with his teeth. That seems to make my clit throb for attention and brings me closer to orgasm.
Anyone else want to share or was that stupid??? LOL
Posted Tue Oct 26, 2004 08:33 PM
Peppermint Dip Oral Technique:
For this technique, pour some Peppermint Schnapps into your lady’s belly button. Now dip your tongue into the schnapps and lick her labia and clitoris. Dip your tongue back into the Schnapps and lick her some more. Now lightly blow on the labia and clitoris. The cooling effect of the Schnapps makes for an intense feeling. You can try it on her nipples, also, guys. And, ladies, you can do the same thing to your guy. Just dip your tongue into his Schnapps-filled belly button and then lick his nipples, penis, and testicles. Don't forget to blow lightly on it after you do this.
Diamond In The Rough Technique:
Wet heat has been used for ages for relaxation and healing. Before you make love, take 2 washcloths and set them out in front of you, each in the shape of a diamond. Now cut a 3-4 inch vertical slit in the center of each one with a pair of scissors. Submerge each one in a bowl of hot water and place it next to the bed. When your lady is naked, have her lie down on her back and open her legs for you. Take one washcloth, wring it out, and place it against her vulva in the shape of a diamond, not a square. The top tip of the diamond should be up against her pubic hair. The bottom tip should be near her anus. The side tips should be against her thighs. Now press against the washcloth with your hands and perform some of your best oral sex maneuvers on her labia and clitoris through the opening in the washcloth. The wet heat feeling is incredible and therapeutic. When that washcloth loses it’s heat, just place it back in the bowl, grab the other one, wring it out, and place it on her vulva and you are all set again. We want the washcloths to be very warm for this technique, but not hot. Be careful not to burn her. Ladies can do this same technique with their guys. Just place the penis through the opening in the washcloth. The hot washcloth feels like heaven on our testicles.
Oral Fire & Ice Technique:
For this technique, you will need a glass of ice (or something else cold) and a cup of coffee (or something hot). Take the cold item and put it in your mouth to make your mouth cold. Now perform oral sex on her with your cold mouth. Do that for a minute or two and then put the hot item in your mouth to make your mouth hot. Now perform oral sex on her, again. Keep switching back and forth. The different sensations feel terrific! Be sure to switch it up a bit, too. In other words, instead of doing hot, then cold, then hot, then cold, do something like hot, cold, cold, hot, cold, hot, hot. This way she won't know which one to expect and she will not be able to prepare herself for what's coming. Ladies can do the same technique on their guys.
Posted Tue Oct 26, 2004 08:37 PM
Posted Tue Oct 26, 2004 09:16 PM
I've been collecting these kind of tips, tricks, and techniques for a few years now. I love to find new ways to pleasure my lady!
Posted Tue Oct 26, 2004 09:29 PM
Posted Tue Oct 26, 2004 10:26 PM
LOL! Ok, I'll share a few more, but I don't want to hog the thread. I should give others a chance to contribute, also.
Walking The Wall Technique:
For this one, have your lady lie naked on the edge of the bed with her feet initially on the floor. You stand on the floor and enter her. Have her raise her legs and place her feet against your chest. As you begin thrusting, have her “walk the wall”, climbing your chest by putting one foot in front of the other. This will change the angle of penetration. Have her climb up and down “the wall” until she finds the angle she likes best.
Brush your teeth and spit out the excess toothpaste, but don’t rinse. Now, coat his testicles with toothpaste, too. Now give your man oral sex. This will produce a nice heat sensation that will leave him squirming, and if you lick up all the remaining toothpaste when you are done, it will prevent cavities, too! Pepsodent and Close-Up both seem to have a cult following. Be sure to have a wet washcloth handy in case it's too hot for him to handle.
As surprising as it may seem at first, a woman's skin is her largest sex organ. As a result, anywhere that she has skin can become an erogenous zone, depending on how you touch her. Take your fingertips in a zig-zag motion and run them all over her body. The reason that a zig-zag motion works better than a straight line is because with the straight line, the little nerves of her skin in the path of your straight line "know" they are going to be touched. With a zig-zag motion, the little nerves "hope" they will be touched. This produces a different, more pleasant effect. Try it on your own arm and feel the difference.
Buff Her Stuff Technique:
For this one, you need a long silky scarf and a short silky scarf. If you don’t already have these around the house, you can go to a fabric store and purchase them. Have your lady stand up. Using the short, silky scarf, blindfold her. Now stand at the side of your lady, facing her. Take the long, silky scarf and allow it to drape over her body. Run it across her breasts, her neck, her midsection, her legs, and her face. After a few minutes, place the scarf in between your lady’s legs. Hold one end out in front of her and one end behind her. Basically, she will be straddling the scarf. Raise both ends of the scarf up so that it barely touches her vagina and clitoris. Now, glide the scarf back and forth across her vulva with long, smooth strokes, like you are “buffing” her intimate parts.
The Ultimate Female Orgasm Technique:
This technique incorporates two completely different types of orgasms. It is not generally known, but there are several types of female orgasms that are completely different from each other in that they originate from different sources, are supplied sensation by different nerves, and have different levels of intensity, depth, and duration. The two orgasm types featured in this technique are the G-Spot orgasm and the clitoral orgasm. Most women will respond to G-Spot stimulation differently than clitoral stimulation. When these two areas are stimulated at the same time, a resonance is created between them as more and more nerve fibers are recruited and send pleasure signals to the brain. There is a cumulative effect, which is immensely pleasurable. This technique is best attempted after you have mastered the G-Spot, are familiar with it's location, understand how to best stimulate it, and have become used to having G-Spot orgasms. The better you know your partner and understand her sexual responses, the better this will work. Ok, what we are going to do here is try to get your lady to have these two different types of orgasms simultaneously, thus taking her to a whole new level of pleasure. Master this one, and your stock goes up - WAY UP! I want you to imagine a scale from 1-10 where 1 is 'Un-stimulated' and 10 is 'Orgasm'. Moisten a finger (which ever one works best for you), insert it in the vagina, and find the G-Spot. Begin to stimulate the G-Spot until your lady reaches a level 2 (on our imaginary scale). When she reaches level 2, leave your finger on the G-Spot, but stop stimulating it. Instead, now start stimulating her clitoris with your tongue. When you are stimulating her clitoris and you feel that she has reached level 2 with her clitoris, stop stimulating it and switch back to her G-Spot. Keep switching back and forth, moving up one level at a time. When she has reached the next level, it's time to switch again. Every once in a while, do both at the same time. Be very careful when you do this. It will be very pleasurable, but don't do it long enough to let her cum. Keep switching back and forth spending only enough time on each area to get her to the next "level". When she has reached a level 9 with both her G-Spot and her clitoris, she should be just about ready to explode. Now do both at the same time again and keep doing it. Keep stimulating both areas even once the orgasm starts. Keep going until she pulls away or tells you to stop. The best case scenario is that she will explode with both orgasms at the same time. Another possibility is that she will have one of her orgasms followed immediately by the other. Not a bad thing, either way. Most likely, she will have the back to back orgasms as it is really hard for you to judge the exact timing of her "levels" at first. But, keep working at it and you will eventually get the simultaneous orgasms. It’s worth the effort. Perfect this one, and you’ll give her an orgasm so strong, it will disturb regional weather patterns! This will also work for masturbation, ladies, so you don't need a partner. In fact, I think it works better that way as you will be able to judge your own "levels" a lot better than anyone else.
Posted Tue Oct 26, 2004 11:02 PM
I think I want to try the last one.. :-)
Posted Tue Oct 26, 2004 11:07 PM
Let us know how it works out for you. It takes practice to get it just right, but practicing sure can be a lot of fun.
If you want more, just PM me. I'm always willing to share, I just don't want to flood the thread and not give any one else a chance to post.
Posted Sun Oct 31, 2004 01:24 AM
Posted Mon Nov 01, 2004 09:02 PM
Posted Thu Nov 04, 2004 02:42 AM
Im not going to tell you how to do it, only some techniques and info I've learned.
First, suck as hard as you can... like to the point you feel your eyebals are about to implode, and swish your toung around when on the up swing. Its such a sweet sensation because I feel like his dick is actually a part of my mouth and it's actually easier to use my toung this way (and keeps him from impaling my head on his shaft in a deep throuat) ***Note to boys, most of us will deep throat on our own, we don't need unsuspecting assistance***
Also, the head is obviously the most sensitive, but it can be too sensitive and not the best place to focus attention on. I seem to get good reactions when I tease the head but pay attention mostly to the shaft...
When I suck up and down the side of the shaft (where the dick isn't in my mouth... much like licking but sucking instead) seems to be REALLY enjoyable to my partners (plural as in past tense not as in multiple)
Another thing is there is a ridge on the underside between the head and shaft that if I lick quickly seems to really get him going...
last but not least there is a spot between the balls and anus that if you press (GENTLY) stimulates the prostate (which makes anal for guys so enjoyable) and if you use while giving head might make him go bonkers...
Alls I gotta say is my pussy likes to be pet, not wildly rubbed. The clitoris is extreamly sensitive and there is a reason y there is a hood protecting it, direct stimulation is just tooo much. I like my clit being pushed down from my bellybutton either with full hand or one finger (that you twitch slightly on the 3 sides where the clit starts/connects). I also like having 2 fingers (one on each side) of my clit and having them move in an alternating up and down motion (like when you tap your fingers on a desk but the fingers straightenet to provide maximum coverage)...
As for sex, I like it best when the man is in a vertical to me, it seems to provide for deeper penetration... and to literally be 'banged off the bed'... you gotta be careful though, some girls can't handle/dont like this though.
Oh and a good form of foreplay (that is nice if it continues throughout sex) is gently toughing me all over my body, not just in prime sexual targets (ie boobs, butt, crotch areas). My ribs and back are the best spots on me. Just use your fingertips and run your fingers up and down the skin toughing so slightly that there is almost no contact... I swear your girl will love this...