hi everyone. i need an advice, i am passing a really bad time right now so i need some advice. first here's my history.
i am a "normal" healthy 20 years old boy. since i can recall i have had one pasion: the knowledge. i'm a nerd i guess. but since i'm 16 years old i have another pasion: the gym. now that i'm 20 i am the first of my university generation and i have a really great body, i am not so handsome neither ugly, let's say an average face.
i always have liked girls, but because i used to be all day doing school stuff i never had time for girls. Now at 6 am i leave my house to go to school, i go out from school at 6 pm. at 7 pm i start my gym routine which i finished at about 9.30 pm. for 10.30 pm i am at my house and i keep reading and studying up to 2 am, so i just sleep 5 hours a day between the night and my school spare time.
i think i should have no problem to get girls because of my really good shape but the fact is that i am shy, not extremely shy but enough to not take the lead in aproaching to girls. if they talk to me fine, but i never look for them.
my problem is that i am desperate because i have never had a girfriend nor i have kissed a women and obviously i have never got laid. i don't have any time to go to night clubs or any club to meet girls, in the school i am very focus in my studies and in the gym i am very focus on my exercises. But certainly i cannot wait two more years to finish my school and then look for a girl to get laid. In my family they think i am kind of gay (i'm not) because i have never had a relationship in spite of my look.
i have been thinking of hiring a whore to lose my virginity but i am afraid of STD.
Please give me some advice
still a virgin- need advice
Posted Sun Feb 12, 2006 05:45 PM
I would icksnay the idea on hiring a whore as you say. Are you really looking for that someone special or just looking for sex? If you are just looking for sex, I find that pretty sad. If you are good looking normal guy your time will come. Having sex just to have sex because you are worried you will never, especially the first time seems like a petty reason. IMHO.