This post has been edited by topper: Mon Feb 01, 2010 02:17 PM
Any 55+ married guys developing a curiosity? Most of us are in the same boat.
Posted Mon Feb 01, 2010 02:09 PM
Posted Mon Feb 01, 2010 04:20 PM
I tend to agree that "safety" in terms of D&D and also personal safety are major advantages to keeping mutual relief amongst friends. The problem, as you rightly point out, is how you actually get to that stage. On the one hand, getting to the stage of sorting a mate out and vice versa would be tricky/embarrassing. How would you broach the subject? On the other hand, how do you both deal with the post-cum situation? Hardly a nice cuddle! I reckon most blokes would have a problem looking at their mates without some embarrassment straight after and for some time...
Having said that, it would not be impossible. Although to some degree, the risks involved with anonymity may be preferable to some sort of public ridicule... we still live in a closed society in the West. Full of absolutists.
For my part, I'm 49 and have had many female relationships, most of whom have tried to perform fellatio. Some better than others, but never earth-shattering. I think there is an alternative....
This post has been edited by Jackim: Mon Feb 01, 2010 04:24 PM
Posted Mon Feb 01, 2010 11:21 PM
Well, needless to say, we tried it. He sucked me first and then before I could cum, he offered me his cock and told me it was my turn to try it. I reached out and held it, played with it and finally put the head in my mouth and started sucking it. Found out also that I don't have much of a gag reflex and could take all 6 inches of it and deepthroat it. It didn't take him long to start moaning and trembling and he told me he was going to cum. I just sucked harder and faster and deeper. He came, I swallowed, I enjoyed and so did he. He then went down on mine and sucked me to a good finish. Since then, I have tried a few more and enjoyed them all.
Posted Fri Feb 12, 2010 02:45 AM
Posted Sun Feb 14, 2010 05:43 PM
I agree and would love to suck the cocks of a couple of people i know but they are anti gay
Posted Sun Feb 21, 2010 11:37 PM
I remember seeing my first porn flick in college (naive virgin at the time)- two couples on a stunning beach in Hawaii, slo-mo arty shots of oozing cocks and wet pussies. After the required M-F couplings and cross couplings, the women went at it. At the point I remember thinking, "oh gawd, no, please don't show the men doing that to each other! ew!". Fortunately, they didn't and I didn't have to die of mortification on the spot.
But a curious thing happened as I got older. Like others posting in this vein, there was no attraction to men per se, no desire to hug and kiss, but the desire to suck cock became overwhelming. I figured that it was just my unrealizable wish to suck myself, which in turn was just a desperate response to my wife deciding she no longer wanted to perform that function (not that she ever really did).
I did get the opportunity about 5 years ago (at 45) to realize this fantasy, albeit in a limited capacity. The machinations I had to go through over several months to get this not-particularly-willing guy to let me suck his cock would make for a good long story that I may submit at some point, but cutting to the chase - he finally dropped his pants and said "suck it!". And I did, for 15 or so glorious seconds. But we were in a fairly public place so I couldn't stay. Instead I got up and said, "what a trip! you've GOT to try it!" and I dropped my pants. I don't think he was expecting that, but after only a moment's hesitation he kneeled and sucked for his 15 seconds. Ahhhh!
And that was it. The opportunity never presented itself again and we eventually went our separate ways.
But I must say - wow, what a fantastic feeling, having that big cock fill my mouth. Mmmmmm.
I'd definitely be up for a suck buddy. But finding one, boy, what a minefield.
Posted Sun Feb 21, 2010 11:59 PM
Posted Tue Feb 23, 2010 04:06 PM
I live in a very small rural village in the UK and finding a suck/fuck buddy here is proving very difficult
Posted Sat Feb 27, 2010 06:09 PM
Posted Fri Jul 02, 2010 05:16 PM
Posted Sat Aug 07, 2010 12:02 PM
Now it's my fav way to have sex. I'd rather suck off a guy or be sucked than fuck her now. She's not into it so it's no fun. But a big cock in my mouth and a hot load is a real turn on!!
I try to only hook up with married men and have regulars. Unfortunately, no buds in my home town so it is a bit of a production to get together. Looking for a hometown bud!!??
Posted Sat Aug 07, 2010 10:47 PM
Posted Sun Aug 08, 2010 11:28 PM
Posted Sun Sep 12, 2010 09:37 PM
Then about 5 years ago I started thinking about the good time of my "youth" and so started seeking guys out again. Have met up with a few and had a great time!!!!
Posted Sat Jan 08, 2011 10:17 AM
Posted Sat Jan 08, 2011 10:41 PM
Posted Sun Jan 09, 2011 04:53 AM
barely hesitated b4 it was in my mouth n getting hard.
loved it straight away,the feel of it filling my mouth,the taste was amazing,his balls touching my chin even excited me but most of all it was the effect my sucking was having on him,knew he was gonna come any second and when he did there was so much i thought i'd choke but i swallowed his hot jiz slowly savouring the taste.
That was me convinced,later that nite he emptied his balls deep up my arse.
cant say i've always put safety first thou get checked out if in doubt,,got gf at mo so no cock but when been single i've taken both cock n pussy if got chance,,am i bi or gay then?
like the guy above who cares
Posted Sun Feb 20, 2011 10:22 PM
I don't find men attractive at all , I could never kiss another man but I have a real urge to touch feel and suck a dick.
I have only done it once, I am trying to find someone close by home for a discreet monogamous male male regular meet up but its not easy.
I mean after being hetrosexual for 50 years how do you bring it up with other blokes?
I do not want to frequent gay bars or mens saunas for fear of picking up something and taking it home (my wife are still sexually active, well occassionaly)
So I guess I am stuck with tugging on my own lol not that that really matters, hell I have been doing on my own for 40 years now so a few more wont hurt!
(in Sydney Australia if anyone CLEAN old man wishes to contact me)
Posted Tue Feb 22, 2011 12:24 AM
Maybe it is the increased access to porn, we see girls sucking cock and imagine what it is like, or maybe it is just the fact that guys having sex does not have the stigma that it did years ago. I remember when I was a teenager one of my dad's friends said he once punched a guy who made a pass at him, everyone but me laughed, I was shocked at such an over-reaction. Today I (and probably most people) would consider his behaviour criminal.
As for finding out if my best friend was gay. It happened to me. My best friend, who was a real prude back then, turned out to be gay. He was one of those tightly wound guys who didn't drink or watch porn, and would (even as a teenager) complain about too much sex in movies. Turns out it was overcompensation. After I got married I lost contact with him (I moved away), but friends I ran into says he is gay now and works for a few gay rights causes. I tried getting back in touch with him, but since none of my friends see him around anymore, so far I've had no luck.
This post has been edited by Paphian Spirit: Tue Feb 22, 2011 12:29 AM
Posted Sat Mar 05, 2011 04:48 PM