Confused about women
Posted Mon Feb 08, 2010 09:09 PM
Posted Tue Feb 09, 2010 04:32 AM
Posted Tue Feb 09, 2010 04:57 AM
Posted Tue Feb 09, 2010 08:08 AM
Admin She reasurres me there is noone else right now and had not been the other night we let everything out the other night.
I just don't understand why she says im a great catch but pushing me away like she is.
Posted Sun Feb 21, 2010 08:32 AM
Posted Sun Feb 21, 2010 08:49 AM
He told me that at the time of the break-up he was trying to spare my feelings by using some vague excuse. Looking back, he did me a HUGE favor though. Sometimes people have their own stuff to work out and they don't want to share it in the moment or drag somebody else into it. You'll just have to trust her.
Posted Sun Feb 21, 2010 11:53 AM
It's possible that she wants somebody close to her or has somebody else, but I think it's more likely that she just figured out that this isn't right. If I said that, it would mean that fantasies of my future don't match the current guy. Essentially, I couldn't see myself being with him in 10 or 20 years, which could be for any reason.
As for the compliments, that's purely the way women talk. It doesn't mean that it's not true, but English-speaking women almost always try to soften the blow by sandwiching it between compliments. Female communication (in English) generally has the goal of preserving harmony, even in times of conflict.
Posted Wed Feb 24, 2010 05:25 PM
This is what makes me think she either has someone new or is about to start chasing them without knowing anything else about the relationship.