Here is why I think this might be happening:
1) She is kind of flirty. When I say flirty, I don't mean that she is sexually and romantically flirting with others. She's just a very friendly person and is very outgoing, so her having a purely platonic conversation with a guy is nothing for her, though it will usually strike jealousy in me.
2) She is the best looking girl I've ever been with. I will always see guys checking her out, which should make me feel nice because it means that they find my girl sexy, but I get a bit of jealous when this happens.
3) I find her a bit naive. Sometimes she will tell me about a guy that was talking to her, and it seems to me like he was hitting on her even though she will think that those weren't his intentions, or at least she can't tell yet if those were his intentions. Maybe she is naive, or maybe I am just thinking that every guy that talks to her wants to fuck her. I think I'm right though.
As you can see I have some jealousy and trust issues. I need to fix this because there is no reason for me to have these issues, and I don't want it to tear apart my relationship. What I have is great and I don't want to mess it up over something stupid.
Oh yeah, and I can rationalize to myself that my jealousy is unwarranted and there is no need for me to feel this way. Logically, I can deduce that. But I just won't feel it in my heart, which is what I need to do. Any tips for getting that done would be greatly appreciated, thanks!
This post has been edited by JG89: Tue Feb 09, 2010 12:36 PM