Posted Mon Feb 27, 2006 01:30 AM
Posted Mon Feb 27, 2006 10:14 PM
How did you find out?
Does she masturbate? Does she have orgasms from it?
What sexual activities have the two of you tried together so far?
Posted Mon Feb 27, 2006 10:18 PM
She might of had a bad experience and can not relax.
Posted Mon Feb 27, 2006 10:43 PM
I blame mine on a lack of emotional connectivity with the person I'm having sex with. There was ONE guy that was able to orally bring me to orgasm, but still to this day never by intercourse. However, when I have an orgasm during masturbation it never comes form just the internal, it has to be accompanied by the outside stimulation.
So if she is anything like me...make it mean something. Maybe after a romantic night of dinner or whatever she likes. And then get a position where you can do your thing and while you are doing your thing either get your thumb rubbing or enough room for her to take care of it herself at the speed that she likes.
Just my suggestion.
Posted Mon Feb 27, 2006 11:00 PM
Posted Mon Feb 27, 2006 11:35 PM
Posted Tue Feb 28, 2006 08:34 PM
Posted Tue Feb 28, 2006 10:11 PM
Well, that doesn't sound very kind! I can somewhat understand why it would be frustrating for you but I also wouldn't blame HER for not being able to orgasm! First, it kinda takes two and second, there are A LOT of women who can't have an orgasm solely through intercourse. I consider myself to be a very sexual and open minded person + I generally don't have problems orgasming and yet, I don't have vaginal ones, which I consider to be prefectly fine.
CurlySue, I don't see why you're bothered about it. What you describe is very common.
But as far as I understand it, the original thread suggests the girl doesn't enjoy ANYTHING. Without additional info - don't have a clue about this one.
Posted Wed Mar 01, 2006 08:42 PM