I'm a virgin. I'm a bit older then your own virgin, but I wasn't going to have sex unless I knew 1) there was no risk of unwanted pregnancy and 2) The women in question was emotionally ready. I've had to turn down a few potential opportunities for both of those reasons, and honestly I've always been so busy focusing on college that I wasn't actively seeking it out ('Rosie' was more convenient, and never complained if I didn't call her in the morning). Well that is about to change in 2 weeks, and it's an...interesting situation.
I'm going to be a sperm donor, helping a lesbian couple get pregnant. I wont go into the details of how THAT particular situation happened, but I will say that I'm comfortable with the decision and I have considered the legal, ethical, and emotional issues involved. In fact as someone that loves children I'm eager to have one of my own, even if I will have to give up parental rights (sort-of, the legal issues are a bit muddled in these sort of situations). Anyways I had thought we would be doing this through AI(artificial insemination) but she discussed it with her partner and they decided on NI(natural insemination...I think you can guess what that euphemism means).
I can't claim that we love each other romantically, but I do want her to be as comfortable with the experiance and enjoy it as much as possible. She is more experienced then me, but hasn't had much experience with men. I'm a novice myself, and I'm going to have to swear off my usual evening activities for days before this, so I don't now how long I'll last. I would like to give her an orgasm before we move on to the ....err natural insemination , although I doubt I could compete with her partner at that particular activity. This will probably take a few attempts, so I may have an opportunity to refine my skills before we succeed. Anyways I was hoping for pointers from the more experienced women out there on how to help her enjoy the experience, physically and emotionally.
thanks for your advice
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