New To Masterbation
Posted Sat Feb 27, 2010 06:30 PM
Is there anyway to tone down the feelings, cause its a distraction even at work. I'm sure its because I'm new and its exciting and I just want to keep doing it, but I don't want to get hooked on it either.
Thanks for any input.
Posted Sat Feb 27, 2010 07:54 PM
Use relaxed breathing and get in a comfortable position that allows you to relax. Curl up if you feel like you have to.
Put down a towel and let out whatever is going to come out.
Use gentler stimulation. Try stimulating yourself close to the spot and not directly on it.
Get past the idea that it's naughty. It's healthy and very common. Distraction at work is one of those things, but make a date with yourself for after work and allow plenty of time for it.
One more thing--if the pain is actually bad, and it actually goes into your abdomen, consider getting a gynecological checkup and telling this to the doctor. It's all right to talk to the doctor about it--they've heard it before.
Posted Sat Feb 27, 2010 07:55 PM
Posted Sun Feb 28, 2010 07:17 PM
Posted Sun Feb 28, 2010 09:28 PM
Also, for me, I think that it's related to ejaculation. For years, I left huge wet spots after sex (but not masturbation). Recently, that has changed to squirting. I think that is what the intense pressure was about - I was not releasing it the way I should have been. Abigail's advice would be great for this - put down a towel and allow your body to take charge.
I would suggest that you explore and learn about your body without putting any requirements on yourself. Trust your instincts and try new things to figure out what works for you.
Posted Thu Mar 04, 2010 11:40 AM