My girlfriend and i have been dating for about 3 months now... she is younger and reletively inexperienced in bed.... I'm basically the first guy she has had continued sex with as the previous guy was only a couple times and pretty much forced her to go through with intercourse.... anyway ... my concern is that when we have sex its almost always painful for her.... and she never feels anything as far as pleasure goes.... i can stimulate her clit just fine but as far as actual intercourse its not pleasurable at all.... its not a lubrication issue.... im not sure what i can do to help her out here... It really bothers me and i feel like im letting her down..... any suggestions or helpful info???
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my girlfriend....pain and no pleasure during sex.. why??
Posted Mon Nov 01, 2004 03:23 AM
Time , take more of it , she may reQuire lots of foreplay in order to prepair fot intercourse . Use small toys , lots of fun to be had here ! The vagina is loaded with muscles & like any other muscle , it gets stronger & easier with excersise ! The big thing is be patient , the both of you , and in the end it'll all be great ! "Good Hunting"
Posted Mon Nov 01, 2004 02:59 PM
thanks for the info... i was thinking it may be something more emotional as well... she doesnt get turned on by kissing and the usual foreplay... which i thought to be kind of strange..... she likes watching porn says the noises get her turned on..... but im assuming that maybe with time things will progress and get better.... im willing to stick with it and give her whatever she needs ...... thats what love is about.... thanks for the replies people!!!