Sexual confusion with Shemales Looking for some outside help on this one
Posted Sun Mar 28, 2010 02:25 AM
Let me put my scene together for you, I'm coming to this forum because frankly I don't feel comfortable asking my close freinds who are living off me. We're all party guys and girls, straight is straight etc. You know what I'm talking about how the feeling is like a pit when your cornered over something sexual that differs from your 'groups' interests, I just don't want them writing me off or anything. So I like shemales, and I don't really place a limit at all on the originality of it as some do, tg's etc are all fly with me. If your a woman on the inside, your a woman on the inside that's the way it is to me so I don't pick by who had a surgery or who was born that way if it makes a difference. When I watch shemale porn, I only watch shemales masterbating, or shemale on female porn. I won't even pull up the vids of shemales on guys, I just don't find it attractive. But I do find the shemale attractive.
But! Then I had to ask myself, if I had the offer to get with a shemale... would I? And it took me a while to answer, but I figured hell ya I would, it's unique and something I'm attracted to, what's wrong with that? I don't really find the idea of taking it up the ass a turn on in any way shape or form, and I'm really not sure how I'd feel with a shemale period, but I figure I'd try it.
So the question boils down to, where does this put me? Am I gay? Or Bi? Or just a straight dude with a shemale lovin side? I dunno what to think of it, but society pressures etc just make me feel uncomfortable about it, even though it's something I find sexy as hell. So I wanted to ask for opinions on what you all think I should be feelin? If that came out right, I don't think it did, but I can't really word it differently. Anyways, thanks for the help on this one in advance and feel free to hit me up via pm if you feel the need.
Posted Sun Mar 28, 2010 01:04 PM
Posted Wed May 08, 2013 04:24 AM
Posted Fri May 10, 2013 10:56 PM
I wouldn't stress myself over labels if I were you. People try to categorize everything, especially when sexuality is the topic, but it isn't that easy.
I guess you can say I'm in the "curious" column when it comes to sexuality. Women are beautiful and turn me on, I've even been with a couple but I'm still unsure... T-girls are a whole different thing for me though... If I had a chance to get with one... I couldn't possibly refuse. Does that make me lesbian because she outwardly looks like a woman? Straight because she has a cock? Bisexual because she has female and male bits? But more importantly... Who the hell cares?
All I can really say is fuck society and its propensity for labeling everything in existence. It's not that simple. You're a dude who happens to like chicks with dicks. I like em too! There's no label for that that I know of, and honestly, I don't care to find out if there is. Seriously. Don't stress it. You like what you like. Why ruin it with labels?
Posted Tue May 21, 2013 07:51 AM