Do you enjoy Cyber Sex?
Posted Thu Apr 01, 2010 11:17 AM
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This post has been edited by B3astiie: Thu Apr 01, 2010 10:37 PM
Posted Fri Apr 02, 2010 07:01 AM
Posted Fri Apr 02, 2010 11:55 AM
Hey Im new here to and Im always ready for some cyber fun. If your interested let me know.
Posted Fri Apr 02, 2010 12:16 PM
Posted Fri Apr 02, 2010 01:49 PM
Posted Fri Apr 02, 2010 03:08 PM
Cyber sex can be fun. It's one of those "next best thing" options for when you can't actually have live sex face-to-face with your partner. IMO, it's a step down from phone sex, even with real-time reactions, because you can't actually hear or see the person when you're just typing. If you're looking to have some kind of interaction with the person, then you'll need to have phone sex or use a webcam. Or you'll have to be able to have live sex with the person.
I totally agree. A good partner is a must with cyber sex. I've never had a bad cyber sex partner, but I can imagine that someone who couldn't get into the scenario with me would be a dull partner.
Posted Fri Apr 02, 2010 04:13 PM
Posted Sat Apr 03, 2010 03:40 PM
Posted Sat Apr 03, 2010 04:43 PM
I once had a girlfriend that lived 2000 miles away from me and we could only get together once in awhile. Between the cam and the phone, we were able to share each other under what was a difficult situation.
Posted Sat Apr 03, 2010 06:32 PM
I do miss it, especially since I don;t have any real sex.
Posted Sat Apr 03, 2010 07:19 PM
Posted Sun Apr 04, 2010 01:19 AM
^I agree. For a good experience, you definitely need to have a partner who is just as interested in and turned on by your pleasure as they are their own. Being passionate and making your partner feel like you're focused on them, being vividly descriptive and really losing yourself in the scenario, not worrying about how long it takes but just enjoying it, and putting in the effort to "go along for the ride" and continuing to encourage the other person if you climax first... All those things make a person a good cyber sex partner. It may seem silly that cyber sex can be such a turn-on for some people, but if you have a good partner, cyber sex can be just as hot as live sex, IMO.
As for getting to know the person you're having cyber sex with, I would agree that getting to know the person better gives your cyber sex an edge because chatting in a non-sexual way with that person can definitely help you to feel a connection, and cyber sex being better with some kind of connection makes sense to me. I believe that live sex is better if there's some kind of connection between the two (or more) people (emotional or otherwise). I got to know one cyber sex partner better, and I had a great time chatting (in general) with him. Whether or not the connection was "real," I felt that there was chemistry or a spark between us that made the cyber sex very hot for both of us. On the other hand, the potential drawback of getting to know your cyber sex partner better is the danger that you'll find out how easy it could be for the two of you to meet in person and have live sex. By getting to know the person on a deeper level (or at least a level that FEELS deeper) than you prepared yourself for, you could be tempted to find out whether or not the fantasies you chat about could be a reality.
Posted Sun Apr 04, 2010 01:38 AM