This post has been edited by pickle: Wed Apr 07, 2010 03:15 PM
No sex with my gf
Posted Wed Apr 07, 2010 03:14 PM
Posted Thu Apr 08, 2010 03:11 PM
I have had two gf's that were committed to being virgins when they married. All I can tell you is that things change when they fall in love. Having been with you for only a couple months you are still on trial. Impatience and pressure will get you zero. If something is not working for it's not worth having.
Posted Sat Apr 17, 2010 05:17 PM
Posted Sat Apr 17, 2010 07:20 PM
So in the mean time, meditate, do chi-gong, masturbate; but keep cool and think about your relation... If cannot make some concessions and be patient, it might not be worth it. If she sees you are comitted however, she might give you something for your devotion, or organize the wedding really fast...
Posted Sat Apr 17, 2010 09:48 PM
Posted Sun Apr 18, 2010 12:04 AM
If you started the relationship a few months ago already knowing her perspective, then you have a decision to make. I'm assuming that she's going to stick to her principles and wait until marriage to lose her virginity to her husband. So you need to decide if you're willing to be supportive of her choice.
If you are, then that's great. Wait for her. Be supportive of her choice. Don't try to persuade or push her.
If you're not, then that's fine, too. But don't waste her time - and your own - by leading her on and only staying in this relationship because you believe that she'll sleep with you if you stick around long enough. If you're not willing to wait for her, then end it now and avoid her being more hurt the longer you're together before breaking up.
Posted Sun Apr 18, 2010 06:16 AM
Posted Sat May 01, 2010 08:47 AM
Posted Sat May 01, 2010 01:12 PM