Posted Fri Apr 09, 2010 07:27 AM
Posted Fri Apr 09, 2010 07:34 AM
Its hard to say... I discovered that my ex GF, that I had over 4 years, cheated me when I was gone... It was not so funny to find out that but I surrvived haha!... She told that to me and I was happy, or how to say, that she was honest. After some months I left her because she started to have a relationship with the other guy...
Posted Mon Apr 12, 2010 12:59 AM
Posted Thu Jul 01, 2010 06:16 PM
Posted Tue Jul 06, 2010 06:05 PM
Posted Tue Jul 06, 2010 06:54 PM
most other husbands would send her on her way with her lover and a warning to never darken the door again! lol
Posted Tue Jul 06, 2010 09:24 PM
Posted Sat Jul 10, 2010 02:36 PM
A high sex drive, the thrill, say it's a younger/older guy/woman etc, perhaps when playing away they get treated in another way than there current relationship, the grass is greener concept, they are oblivious or think they will not found out/ caught, perhaps they enjoy nsa fun, etc etc..
Posted Fri Jul 16, 2010 10:25 AM
Posted Fri Jul 23, 2010 06:23 AM
well put it this way I was in a long term realationship with a girl and after finding out she had been cheating I was very angry. But I think it depends who she has also cheated with, dont you. I found out she had cheated with my best friend. yes I did forgive her ater time, but to forget the whole issue is another thing altogethr. Do you agree?
Posted Mon Jul 26, 2010 12:00 PM
Posted Wed Jul 28, 2010 05:13 PM
We went to a bar to meet a friend of mine. We got really drunk with him & she seemed to really hit it off with him - something quite rare in our relationship. We left that bar and went to a nightclub. We stopped at another pub along the way & while we were there I started getting a little suspicious. Later, at the nightclub, she and I were making out on a couch. She was between he & I. It felt like her right hand was a little further away. Although I didn't know it at the time, she was actually stroking his cock. Not long after that he went to the mens room & she left to go to the ladies room less than a minute later - I smelled a rat. I gave it another 30 seconds and followed them. I came around the corner to find them making out. They didn't see me. Apparently they had been feeling each other up as well. She told me about how they shoved their hands down each others pants, how she jerked him off while he fingered her.
When we left the club we (she & I) got into a cab. Sensing that something was going on I asked her (in a different language which we both speak) whether she'd like him to get into the cab with us. She did. I asked her if we should invite him back to our place. She said yes. I asked her if she knew that he was coming back with us to fuck her. She blushed but didn't answer.
We got back to our place & they fucked in front of me. I joined in a little too. The next day she tried to tell me that she thought I had arranged it all with him beforehand. I didn't. She & I talk about most things and this is DEFINITELY one of the things we're supposed to talk about It took me a few days to realize that she didn't have a clue if it was pre-arranged - she just wanted to fuck him & knew I'd let her.
It wasn't cheating per se, but it would've been nice if she'd been honest with me from the start.
There's probably alot of context missing here. Sorry, am drunk as I write this.
Posted Wed Jul 28, 2010 11:52 PM
Wow so sorry to here that,
Posted Thu Jul 29, 2010 12:18 AM
Posted Thu Jul 29, 2010 12:52 AM
Sad say in my case it will be till death do we part Then probably sit on shelf for next 30 years waiting to follow him think about it's along time