Need help with an older woman
Posted Fri Apr 09, 2010 03:30 PM
Posted Fri Apr 09, 2010 03:41 PM
Posted Fri Apr 09, 2010 04:00 PM
This post has been edited by mothx: Fri Apr 09, 2010 04:02 PM
Posted Fri Apr 09, 2010 05:05 PM
You're right in there my friend. Just keep doing what you doing and proceed when you're comfortable. I'm also in pursuit of an older woman and she is hot, I'm 20 and she's 42 and we are close and she likes me. I am a shy one, and she still liked me, although she preferred outgoing, etc.
Just go with the flow and if you see an opportunity, go for it my boy!
Posted Fri Apr 09, 2010 09:42 PM
Goldshocker, next time she comes to the store tell her this.. "You know, it's very nice of you to give me all these goodies, and I wonder if I could reciprocate by inviting you to a cup of coffee some time next week..." If she says yes, then ask her when.
Don't start creating scenarios about what she could mean or think. If you ever go out with her, just try to compliment her on the way she looks as soon as you see her... Stop thinking about her as a cougar, because she won't be chasing you... You should be the one to do that just like you would go after any other girl.
Posted Sat Apr 10, 2010 06:26 PM
Posted Sat Apr 10, 2010 09:34 PM
The way I see things happening, is most likely not for us to end up dating. To me it would be more of a date thing if you know what I mean. Im really busy with school and girls my own age, and im sure she has a busy life. I like what you said Olive about telling her that I want to pay her back, but there is almost always at least my coworker, if not a few customers in the store at the same time. Also, I guess I might be scared to bring anything up like that in case she says no I dont have to pay her back, because then she might not bring me the good earth tea!! lol but I know I cant be a pussy, so I guess ill wait and hope that its just me and her next week. I dont know though, I think I need some more words of encouragement, because I dont want to fuck it up!
Posted Sun Apr 11, 2010 05:27 AM