Puzzled need help!
Posted Thu Mar 30, 2006 09:59 PM
Posted Thu Mar 30, 2006 10:05 PM
If you're saying what I think you're saying, I could do whatever and / or with whoever, then I'd tell him to get fucked! I want my guy to only want me WITH HIM!
Posted Thu Mar 30, 2006 10:08 PM
if he means anybody... then I guess thats a question of whether he trusts you a lot that he knows no matter what, you will still be with him or he doesn't really care
but, taken that your his girlfriend/wife... then I probably wouldn't do anything with anyone else even if I had the opportunity, it just makes sense.. I think i would just take it and leave it alone.
Posted Thu Mar 30, 2006 10:51 PM
I hope this one better explains it
Posted Thu Mar 30, 2006 11:02 PM
makes sense, then personally I wouldn't see anything wrong with it if my wife/girlfriend agreed also.
But the only thing that you may want to think about is if/when it does happen, do you think it will affect your sex life or just life in general in anyway? like will you start to doubt her about going to WANT to have different men since you let her the first time?
and if the answer is no, then probably the only thing you need to find out is whether your wife wants to and all.
Posted Thu Mar 30, 2006 11:23 PM
Posted Thu Mar 30, 2006 11:33 PM
Add enough variety to your sexual relationship so that you can be the other man sometimes.
Posted Thu Mar 30, 2006 11:48 PM
Granted some couples are emotionally or mentally strong enough for that and if she's not it will kill the marriage to even suggest it more than once. But if you don't ask you don't know!!
Posted Fri Mar 31, 2006 10:16 AM
except, the after feelings once its over... but you're pretty comfortable with it so I think it should be fine.
Posted Fri Mar 31, 2006 10:25 AM
Why? I'm not saying it's for me but if your going to say "it's just wrong" back it up!!!!!!!!!!
Posted Fri Mar 31, 2006 05:14 PM
I want my guy to only want me WITH HIM! I think if you're in an honest, loving relationship, then you never have a need for that....find a way to spice it up between just the 2 of you......
Posted Fri Mar 31, 2006 05:36 PM
So I lik MJ's idea - YOU become the stranger. How you begin is up to you, but be sure your wife understands in front that it is a rokeplay - tell her, ask her, discuss with her, but get her (at least) a little excited by the idea.
Then call her, when she is at home and not expecting a call. Disguise your voice, chat her up, ask her out. Get her to agree, it's safe, you're a married woman, I'd never take advantage - or, Your husband doesn't have to know - whichever is more to your (her) taste. Invite her to a restaraunt that you have never been to and serves a type of food you would not ordinarily eat - you get the point - once she has agreed to meet you, get a room in a (hopefully nearby) hotel or motel. Depending on the role you are playing, you might even want to rent a car (or just take a cab), the idea is for her to not see anything that looks like your shared life.
When you meet, be disguised - again, plan ahead so the persona fits the available disguise, and it should be cofortable enough to wear all evening, but thorough enough that even though she knows it's you, she can't be 100% sure...
Anyway, I'm sure you can spin this in an infinite variety of ways, but that could be a very spicy occasional addition to your sex routine. in fact, I like the idea so much, I may just try it myself! LOL!