Need major help...but pathetic
Posted Sat Apr 08, 2006 11:49 PM
Posted Sun Apr 09, 2006 12:27 AM
Posted Sun Apr 09, 2006 12:33 AM
Have her masturbate you sooner. Hey--some guys need less foreplay. Skip the kissing and so forth for later or another time. Going right for your dick might turn out to be exciting for both of you.
The other things is for you two to experiment more with hand jobs. There are ways for her to do it that won't get you off so fast, but that can still be fun for both of you.
I also wonder what you're doing for her. Hand jobs are good, but is it ever her turn? Do you ever snuggle and kiss as foreplay for her?
Posted Sun Apr 09, 2006 12:57 AM
Posted Sun Apr 09, 2006 02:27 AM
It seems to me that if you masturbate more often on your own that could help. You'd still get an erection quite fast when you're with her but having masturbated within the previous few hours should slow you down.
Posted Sun Apr 09, 2006 08:43 AM
Posted Sun Apr 09, 2006 09:43 AM
My b/f is rather quick also, so I let him go first! then most times we start all over (kissing, foreplay, him gettin me off, the whole thing) by that time, he's ready for 2nds. And yes, 20-30 minutes of oral, I'll take that ANYTIME!!
Posted Tue Apr 18, 2006 06:11 PM
Posted Tue Apr 18, 2006 06:25 PM
Besides, so what if it slows things up? Do what you need to do to come down from the experience, clean up, etc., then both of you devote your attention to her. She'll still be there, won't she?
Posted Tue Apr 18, 2006 07:01 PM
yuo're not going to be a midnight stallion over night, so don't be embaressed, get this idea out of your head that you should be doing everything perfect from the beginning, that's insane and is only going to mess with your confidence.
Explain to the girl that she makes you really really hot, you think about fucking her all the time, and so whenever you get close to her you are ready to explode fast. She'll think it's hot, and it will help her understand how sexy she is in your eyes.
After that, practise practise practise. Which is loads and loads of fun!
Posted Tue Apr 18, 2006 10:36 PM