Don't get me wrong me and my partner have a great sex life it's just that due to events that occured to me in the past I am avidly against letting him perform oral sex on me. Which is fine with him (although he would like to) and I have permitted it a few times, but I don't think I will ever be comfortable with it. I love having sex with him, and yes it does pleasure me but most of that pleasure stems from the fact that I know HE'S enjoying it not really any solely from me. I know some women can achieve orgasm through simple vaginal penetration however I'm certainly not one of them. It seems like when we're done having sex i'm...forgotten or my "needs" are somewhat disregarded. Is there any way I can approach this without making him feel inadequate?
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