Girlfriend doesn't like the fact
Posted Thu May 20, 2010 07:51 PM
Posted Fri May 21, 2010 12:56 AM
But really...what can you do about aesthetics? Some people like giant, surgically-modified juggs, some people like brunettes...some people like mutilated penises.
Posted Fri May 21, 2010 02:30 AM
You could try reasoning with her but be prepared for it not to work. As Pzych is saying, sometimes people have strong preferences/aversions to aesthetics and even if the rationale is totally absurd, it's pretty hard to convince the person otherwise.
Posted Fri May 21, 2010 08:35 AM
Either she'll get used to it or you can find another chick, I wouldn't get cut for her or anything, I hear the feelings and sensations are much better.
Posted Fri May 21, 2010 12:52 PM
Here (in Germany and maybe even in most of Europe) most guys are uncut. That also means that 99.9% of women think that it's "normal" and "looks right". I think the only thing you can do to change her mind is actually have a circumcision . Or have her get used to it. Does she freak out about big/small (whichever she doesn't have) labia, too? It's not really more than a superficial thing.
If she thinks that uncut penises (?) are dirty/smell/..., let her clean it herself (maybe when you shower together or something) so she can make sure that it's perfectly clean and not weird and disgusting.
Posted Fri May 21, 2010 05:17 PM
Posted Fri May 21, 2010 05:18 PM
The only thing I can add is that she'll have to get over/learn to like how your uncut cock looks. There isn't much you can do to get her to change her mind if she isn't willing to change it herself. Unfortunately, if she can't like the way you look, then there may not be a LTR in the making here.
Good luck, OP. I hope you can talk some sense into her.
Posted Mon May 24, 2010 09:08 AM
Posted Fri May 28, 2010 12:01 AM
If you like or love sbdy , one part of the body shouldn t be a problem, u gotta accept the other one for what he is and what he has.My fiance doesnt have the perfect body but i love every inch of that body , why cant she do the same ??? anyway, there s no perfect body,heres the lesson !!!
Posted Fri May 28, 2010 07:07 AM
also, you older guys encounter women that don't care, because in the past it wasn't always the norm, but most of us in our 20's are cut by default, so to a 20 year old woman it's going to be different.
Posted Fri May 28, 2010 08:11 PM