The way that she has always communicated that trust to me has been in two very subtle and simple ways that boil my juice in seconds. Her eyes and her legs.
Her open eyed gaze into my own eyes prior to or during a sex act will get me hard as stone in seconds. Beyond that one of the sexiest things she does is open eyed lovemaking. At times she will hold my face to insure I am looking into her eyes as I am penetrating her. Watching the changes in her eyes as I slide into her and my hardness stirs her arousal. Her gaze when she is relaxed and feeling very connected to me is more erotic than any porno I have ever seen. Her eyes are amazingly sexy and communicative.
The other thing is her legs, or more appropriately her thighs. We can be lying in bed kissing languidly and we can be stroking and caressing each other's bodies in total blissful interaction but then she will do it. . . talking to me with out words using her legs. The act of parting her legs for me is a not so subtle cue that she taught me a long time ago. It says, I want you to do me, or love me there, or look at what you are doing to me there, or kiss me there or I cant wait anymore.
The funny thing is that she is never specific when she parts her legs for me. But even funnier ...I have never made a mistake yet in what i did in response to her cue. LOL
What subtle signals do you give your lover, how do you communicate or what little intimate secrets do you have that allow you to read each other's needs? Or maybe you like the direct approach or verbalizing? How do you or she communicate arousal?
Tell us how you communicate in intimate situations?
This post has been edited by tenyn: Mon May 24, 2010 04:09 PM