Bf never gives me oral
Posted Fri May 28, 2010 04:38 PM
Posted Fri May 28, 2010 04:50 PM
Posted Fri May 28, 2010 04:56 PM
Posted Fri May 28, 2010 05:42 PM
Posted Fri May 28, 2010 06:35 PM
I suppose some men just don't like it, but I have a thing about spit. I think it's disgusting, even if it's my own. and he loves it when I give him a bj and I use my hand and spit. so I do it for him, even though I really hate my hand and spit together (yeah, I'm a really odd one) but whatever. I do it cause he loves it.
thanks for the replies guys. I guess I just gotta talk to him. I don't want to force him to do something he would hate because that spoils the feeling for me, but I just want this fixed. I wish he could learn patience and compromise. that's the one thing that's really effing this whole shindig up.
Posted Fri May 28, 2010 06:55 PM
Posted Fri May 28, 2010 07:27 PM
Clearly the best idea
In all seriousness, FuneralOfFears is correct in my opinion.
I have guy friends who don't do it, or hate doing it. Usually their excuse/explanation is "it's boring" or "I just don't feel like it" and this makes me chuckle. If their girlfriends knew that was the real reason, they'd use the same excuses in response to "blow me babe". Hopefully, it's something that can be fixed by some gentle coaxing or a conversation. Hopefully, he's not just a selfish bastard.
Good luck with that.
Posted Fri May 28, 2010 07:45 PM
really? man.... I'll have to think about it. talk to him about all this shee-it and then if communication doesn't work, then I'll check out and find a new man that'll fulfill my needs.
Good luck with that.
dude... did you quote my boyfriend? totally something he would say. "blow me babe". I don't even like being called babe or baby, but since I really love and care about him, I let it slide. huhu, I really make him sound like a douche bag. he's really not.
anyway, thanks again for all the help guys.
Posted Fri May 28, 2010 08:06 PM
Posted Fri May 28, 2010 08:58 PM
Posted Sat May 29, 2010 04:56 AM
Anyway, it is hard for me to understand his point of view, because giving oral sex to my girlfriend is my favourite sexual activity, sometimes it seems to me that I am obsessed with it, like a small "fetish"
And I also do not understand guys who find it boring - OK, if the girl does not enjoy it, then it may be boring for both of them, but if she enjoys it, I cannot see how it can be boring for the partner when he feels how her arousal is increasing and how she reaches orgasms etc. How can it be boring? How can it be boring when you watch your partner´s sexual arousal and/or her orgasm - especially when you feel that it is your activity which makes her feel so...?
It is sad but true that in this case watching porn is necessary for you in order to put up with this kind of frustration... I don´t understand how he can be satisfied when it is clear that you miss something essential in sex...
As one of the previous posters suggested, maybe trying to give him blowjobs in 69 position could help. In an ideal case, he would "open his eyes" in this position and he would see something beautiful - literally as well as metaphorically speaking:)
Posted Sat May 29, 2010 09:04 AM
Hi you need to let him know what this is doing to you and if you have to help him with what makes you feel good let him watch you if need be what ever it takes so he knows that he is going to lose you some day because of this and I know most woman don't get of to intercourse it takes the for play and with woman it can't take some time to get them off you need to show him where some of the bottom are that make you feel good and tell him there is more and he need to find them on his own because your goid is to be pleased and most men don't understand that we think it all about intercourse and it's not so let him know the soon the better
Posted Sat May 29, 2010 04:14 PM
Posted Sat May 29, 2010 05:28 PM
All that being said, it's too late for you to do that. My only suggestion is to speak up now. You should be prepared for bad news though. Most likely, if he hasn't done it by now, then it's because he doesn't want to and that's probably not going to change just because you asked for it. In that case, you need to decide if it's something you are willing to live without.
Posted Sun May 30, 2010 03:31 PM
life is short. if he will not lick your pussy, dump him!!! it's your life, you need to be happy!
Posted Sun May 30, 2010 09:39 PM
So you give him what he loves, but he won't reciprocate.
Posted Tue Jun 01, 2010 05:25 PM
Posted Tue Jun 01, 2010 08:56 PM
LOL, you are so funny. Thanks for the genuine offer.
Posted Fri Jun 04, 2010 04:11 PM
You don't go down, get out of town.