Miki likes to fuck older men
Posted Fri Apr 28, 2006 09:17 PM
Posted Fri Apr 28, 2006 10:07 PM
A bodyguard's job is to ignore you. You are the lowest person in his spectrum of observation; although he must be aware of your position at all times, it is everyone else that he must focus on. If you have a personal relationship, it will interfere with his ability to properly perform his functions. While you might think being in a relationship with him would make him even more protective, in fact the functional opposite is true - that kind of distraction can cause him to hesitate the tiniest fraction when the shit comes down - and can kill you, and him.
It's not about an age difference, that's just numbers. It's about letting him maintain clear, undistracted focus on a complex task.
Posted Sat Apr 29, 2006 06:10 AM
In other words, if you really depend on this guy for protection from potential harm leave him alone and let him do his job. To do otherwise may get you DEAD.
And if HE is showing interest in you then he should be fired because he is not taking his responsibility seriously.
If you take the fact that he is your body guard out of the equation then it becomes just two people with a mutual attraction. The only numbers to be concerned with are how many times you can fuck each other in a day!
Posted Sat Apr 29, 2006 07:38 AM
Posted Sat Apr 29, 2006 05:50 PM
Of course u can always fire him and get another bodyguard. Then the job issue will get out of the way and u will be free to do..whatever. Your agegap is small by the way! My bf is 54 and I'm 24. There r no gaps..
Posted Sat Apr 29, 2006 07:47 PM
Artist, I guess I should have mentioned various people fill in for him when he switches shifts. My bodyguard, Ken, does not get distracted easily at all. In fact, it's known by his colleagues that he's had a few flings with some of his clientele and is currently fucking his boss's daughter. He's so indifferent to everything and it stimulates me a lot to know that I turn him on... sometimes. So, please, as much as I value your opinion don't go on about he needs to concentrate on ME and my "welfare" and other "let's play the nobility bodyguard" crap.
HE SHOWS no interest in me.... visibly! All he does is argue with me and play ego and smug in the silent fashion, like he's too good to talk to me or something. If he's fired, then I'll be gasoline, baby... Anyways.