Wife having pain during sex
Posted Thu Jun 03, 2010 06:43 AM
My wife is having pain during sex. It start in woman on top position. But now a days after few minutes she is having pain in missionary position also. In the begining it is ok but after few minutes she is having pain.
Why is it so? Any remedy for that
Posted Thu Jun 03, 2010 08:10 AM
Posted Thu Jun 03, 2010 08:54 AM
I sometimes get pain during sex, but only if i'm with a guy who is larger and he hits too deep, too hard.
Posted Thu Jun 03, 2010 09:03 AM
Posted Thu Jun 03, 2010 09:12 AM
Sometimes it's a hot frictiony burn which means I'm dry, just need some lube. There's also the uncomfortable pain you can get if the cervix is getting hit. It's not an awful pain, but you certainly feel it, I'm not a huge fan of it. Change positions, see if it stops.
If you're concerned or if it is persistent then definitely see a doctor!
Posted Thu Jun 03, 2010 09:29 AM
It would be best if she went to see a dr.
Posted Thu Jun 03, 2010 09:38 AM
or just had a baby! you've never felt pain like that before! My husband was a jackass then, for trying then! To make him happy i did give him the option of a bj or anal after that, but trying to have sex after a baby i think is equally or maybe more painful then having the baby!
Posted Sun Jun 06, 2010 09:00 AM
Posted Sun Jun 06, 2010 10:09 AM
1) more description on the type of pain involved here, is it a burning pain, stabbing pain, thrusting, does she feel as though she is ripping, hip joints, pelvic muscle pain, ovarian pain. Does it persist after sex for any period of time? Does it happen without sex involved?
The general description of pain isn't enough to figure out what is causing this.
2) Assurances she will see a doctor regardless the outcome of this discussion. Essentially pain is not normal, you cannot easily remedy it or work around it. Pain is presented when the body is informing you that something is wrong. Genital area pain is not something to be ignored, so please get her to a doctor for a definitive answer.