She wants it Rough!
Posted Wed Jun 23, 2010 10:00 PM
of thing, I just wanted to know, if any of you guys have had a girl like this and what should I do, during? Should I slap her all the time she is going to get
a bit dizzy hahaha
Any Advice here would be a god sent!!!
Also I am having sex for the first time this FRIDAY!!! 0_0 I am a bit nervois!!! just worried I wont last long and stuff like that! and what to do hahaha
any help in this area? I mean what if I cum way to fast!!! should I keep going anyway? Then somtime in the following week I am going with a much older
women she is 50, but she looks amazing!! any idea how I can make her happy? =D then I have the rough girl the weekend!
All I want to do here is make them happy! want them to have a good time, so I need some Advise guys!!!
Posted Wed Jun 23, 2010 10:09 PM
get a strap on though, or you'll please none of them (your profile states female)
Posted Wed Jun 23, 2010 10:12 PM
But if you stress to bad you are going to do worse. Or at least thats how it was for me
Posted Thu Jun 24, 2010 08:52 AM
im kidding, no you don't constantly slap her, every one has there preferences and i dont think you can really satisfy someone completely as a virgin, especially not having any 'rough' experiences. even non-virgins have trouble being rough enough for their partners, it takes a lot of learning about a person.
This post has been edited by SmartGuysWin: Thu Jun 24, 2010 08:53 AM
Posted Thu Jun 24, 2010 09:42 AM
Do gentle biting round the neck and shoulders, the stomach is another great place for leaving bruises that can be easily covered up.
If she's wanting rough then teasing and torturing the nipples is a great method - twisting them, pulling them, if they're interested then biting as well.
Use your nails and run them down her body and back, turn it into scratching if you need to get a bit nastier.
Keep slapping round the face to a minimum and overall fairly soft unless she instructs you to, however if you pull on her nipples then you can slap her breasts and that normally gets a VERY good reaction from my girlfriend.
Again about spanking - using a ruler or something like that can add a lot of colour (haha) without too much effort.
Tying up and blindfolding again are great ways to create a rough atmosphere.
Lots of dirty talk if she's into rough stuff - lots of nasty words, warning about what you're going to do to her, maybe threats, testing her a little bit (I'll give you 10 spanks and you're not allowed to make a sound... or else 'x punishment').
Goodness me I could go on, but I hope that's enough for just now. Haha, sorry for rammbling.
Posted Thu Jun 24, 2010 04:13 PM
I wouldn't do it with a stranger, cuz you have to set basics of what you will get into, the borders you don't wanna cross, etc... i'd say start slowly, a slap onher ass once in a while; if she wants more or harder, she should say it so... same goes for hair pulling, go gradually until she screams of pain or uses the "safe phrase"...
The safe phrase is important if you wanna get deeper into roleplay, cuz if she wants to play the dominated, you have to know a sign that you crossed the line, same is good for you. if she comes into the room with a reciprocating saw with a 15 inch dildo on it while you're cuffed, you might wanna use the safe phrase... before you get hurt for real. Something like "please have mercy", "please don't kill me", or "please spank the dog" would make it clear that it's time to stop.
As a starter for rough sex and "domination", having physical superiority over her is a good start; being taller and stronger than her. You should be able to hold her down and "pinned to bed" while you fuck her...
Posted Thu Jun 24, 2010 06:07 PM
Posted Fri Jun 25, 2010 10:09 AM
tease at first to the point of her begging, be soft, a girl I was involved with used to like being submissive and this was a great way to loosen her up. Before you get with her tell her how you want her to be, have her bathe, moisturise, shave if need be, its a mental thing and would prepare her for the night ahead.
Try restraining her and tease her body, under and around her breasts, leave the nipples and pussy till last, go for her thighs, stomach, shoulders wit fingers, little kisses and when the ante builds lightly start to play with her nipples moving to pussy, gentl tracing the outline of her clit and run down her lips if you can make her cum here you should be delighted and repare for a raping once she's loose.
flip between genlte and rough in a way she wont expect, she'll love it, well it worked for me anyway, hope it does for you!
Posted Fri Jun 25, 2010 10:25 AM
Do not, I repeat, do not slap her or do anything that might be considered illegal by any standards, even if she gives you the green light. That's just not right... You don't know her for sure, she might not mean the same you understood. BDSM requires a great deal of trust, and there's no way you can have that if this is going to be YOUR first time.
Posted Sat Jun 26, 2010 09:16 AM
In the end, I was slapping her arse like mad as the more I slapped that butt, the harder I slapped that butt, the wilder she got. When she came, she literally threw me onto the bed and fucked me like I had never been fucked before. She made me her bitch.