Do sex toys spice up the bedroom?
Posted Tue Jun 29, 2010 10:53 PM
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Posted Wed Jun 30, 2010 01:52 AM
Once I make the suggestion or initiate or pull out a toy to use, he's game and will use whatever I choose.
Posted Wed Jun 30, 2010 05:00 PM
I would definitly support the purchase of toys and I would strongly suggest to purchase the toys together. Its a great way to get a better insight as to what deep dark desires dwell within your partner that can be eagerly unleashed.
Posted Wed Jun 30, 2010 05:32 PM
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Posted Thu Jul 01, 2010 04:47 AM
Shopping together can be a fun or scary experience depending on kinkyness of the toys lol.
I enjoy shopping with my wife, I do go without her sometimes just for the suprise factor but i'd much rather have her there to say yay or nay on certain items. Atleast when she goes it gives me some form of idea as to what she likes or might be willing to try.
I hope you do go shopping with your BF, it will bring you closer and hopefully open up your sexual freedom.
Posted Thu Jul 01, 2010 06:55 AM
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Posted Sat Jul 17, 2010 06:36 AM
I really think sex toys are essential to maintain an active sex life with the same partner. We all know that sex gets boring after some time with the same partner, you've tried all kinds of positions and places and know what to expect. Sex toys give a new dimension to your sex life and offer all kinds of new possibilites.
What I noticed is that buying sex toys together is quite nice and exciting. Not only the anticipated pleasure, but also it offers opportunity to talk with your partner what you like and fantasy about trying. You may be surprised what your partner wants or is willing to do to you! In my relation this has advanced our sex life considerably!
Posted Sat Jul 17, 2010 08:04 AM
Posted Sat Jul 17, 2010 09:41 AM
we've got a couple dildos, a couple vibs a cock ring and an extension for me..certain times different toys, and i can tell you honestly that it has brought our sex life around 360, she likes em and requests certain ones, she's not 100% sure on the cock extension, but damm does she ever cum hard now...sex toys for t he win!!!...She hasn't came with me yet to the store, but has said next time she will come with me...can't wait for her to pick something out
Posted Sat Jul 17, 2010 01:30 PM
if you are concerned your husband, boyfriend or SO will be responsive or not responsive to a particular thing you want to try, then the major thing you have to do is communicate with him, talk to him about it and see if you can get it out in the open. If you're old enough to shag you're old enough to talk about it like an adult.
I really couldn't envisage how to manage with a sexual relationship where we didn't discuss our likes, dislikes, wants, hates, desires, future sexual plans etc....
That being said, yes sex toys really do spice up the bedroom, vibrating things especially are attractive to men, especially on the perineal area I found.
Posted Mon Oct 25, 2010 04:03 PM