Can some girls not orgasm?
Posted Sat Jul 10, 2010 11:35 PM
Posted Sat Jul 10, 2010 11:57 PM
If that still doesn't work, then I guess as long as she still enjoys it, go with it!
Posted Sun Jul 11, 2010 03:45 AM
as someone who came for the first time late, i'd recommend a good dose of masturbation alone in the house or space or whatever with something like a bunny vibrator. personally, i did this and decided i was going to come goddamn it, and didn't come out until i had. took a while, i probably sounded like a twat (still moan a lot now) and to be honest, it wasn't that great, but it was an orgasm and they've just got more brilliant ever since. good luck!
Posted Sun Jul 11, 2010 07:29 AM
She says she feels like she has to pee. I would tell her, thats fine go with it, don't be embarrassed let it go the sheets can be cleaned...if she pees great at least she is letting go fully. Pee is sterile anyway so it won't hurt you if she has an accident. Pandora is correct, she my have to put her mind to it in an all or nothing masterbation session (or two). Both the women I mentioned did the same thing as Pandora did. The key is you can't pressure her to do it. She probably is very sensitive and is having trouble letting go, a lot of women have this hurdle. I am not a woman so I can't tell you what the blockage is it can be different for several women like childhood abuse, religious influence, control issues, unworthiness, or they just plain think too much about it instead of relaxing and focusing on the feeling. I think it is even scary for women sometimes because they are disconnected from their own beauty, sensuality, and genitals. They have to understand and appreciate their own sexiness to feel comfortable enough to orgasm.
they just have to learn to feel it, not think about it.
Posted Sun Jul 11, 2010 08:19 AM
Posted Sun Jul 11, 2010 09:29 AM
Posted Sun Jul 11, 2010 05:17 PM
Same question and some helpful responses.
I believe she can cum - as in she is physically able to cum - but it seems like she has a block on her ability to cum - possibly a mental block since she's feeling like she might pee. She could be worried that she will pee and then be incredibly embarrassed.
However, the feeling that a woman needs to pee seems to be a common factor in women who squirt. So maybe she's a squirter and doesn't know it yet. She needs to "let go" and allow the orgasm to happen.