Wife having sex with another guy Did you ever make her the offer?
Posted Mon Jul 12, 2010 11:39 AM
Posted Mon Jul 12, 2010 01:20 PM
Posted Mon Jul 12, 2010 04:00 PM
I personally would not want my wife out banging other men, especially while doing it on the sly outside of our marriage. I don't care if she did give me permission or not, I respect my marriage as it is, I see no need to venture outside of my bedroom for sexaul satisfaction because I am satisfied with my wife and the sex we both share. Much like Backcheck, I took those vows and I meant every word of them and I expect my wife to do the same, if not, then why are we even married if we are going to be banging other people.
I got my own wife, people need to go find thier own because mine is not up for offering nor while she is married to me will she ever be.
Posted Mon Jul 12, 2010 04:04 PM
This post has been edited by carrdon: Mon Jul 12, 2010 04:05 PM
Posted Mon Jul 12, 2010 04:36 PM
Who said anything about me being or even acting innocent ? This topic is about sharing your wife or your wife allowing you to sex up other people, just because I have a pic of my cock on this site does not mean I wish to share my wife.....how in the hell did you even make that sort of a connection ?
P.S. The sex-a-holic thing, that is generated by the forum in conjunction with ones post count, has nothing to do with me or my preference to not share my wife.
Posted Mon Jul 12, 2010 04:44 PM
Posted Mon Jul 12, 2010 05:53 PM
This post has been edited by Newtz: Mon Jul 12, 2010 05:54 PM
Posted Mon Jul 12, 2010 07:22 PM
Its all perception and trust, if it is you who wants his wife to nail the other dudes; then it is you who trusts your women enough to not leave you for these guys after the encounters.
Me and my ex-lady tried this, we had rules set in place. Diffrent area codes and such were acceptable and bring absolutly no one home, it worked out for the first 6 months. However the following 2 were hell, at first it was kinda a turn on at first but in the end it became about jelously and competition. She would hook up with someone, I would hook up with someone, one night changed it all. I came home early one day and sure enough her and one of her suitors where leading into the event. I lost my mind, the reason we set the rule to not bring anyone home was; this is our home, our money, our efforts and not to be desecrated by anyone else.
Either way we had our good times and bad times...
Posted Tue Jul 13, 2010 03:36 AM
However we are well aware that many couples and singles think we are weird. He actually has not had another woman like that in some time because he actually says he does not need to. I said that I wouldnt but he loves seeing me have another man, and making each other happy is our greatest gift to one another. We dont suffer from mistrust, we do have jealousy but in healthy measures and it works for us.
We are not the only couple that can do that.
For instantance as he is away next week I have a lad that has helped us with a facial session coming over with a mate and they are both having me as he is away.. he will watch and they will take photos for him. THey then email him with how it was for them, I write him a detailed description of how it was for me, in grahic detail and he loves it.
It depends if it would work for you.. we do not see monogomy as needed in our relationship, I am his wife, I am his woman and I would never ever be emotional with another man..( for instance my playmates are sexual and not my friends)
Staying with one person is really against human nature... but society has made it what is acceptable. but then I know some would argue that killing a male rival was human nature too..and now we cant do that either. its what works for you as a couple thats important.. for us both of us are happier than we have ever been with anyone else in all our lives....
Posted Tue Jul 13, 2010 05:21 AM
This post has been edited by Transatlantic: Tue Jul 13, 2010 05:21 AM
Posted Tue Jul 13, 2010 06:03 AM
Of course if i worked away for a while, i couldn't mind if she had release with a friend or someone else; i would probably do the same if i had the occasion; i just know the chances that she'll want to are actually lower than for me.
This post has been edited by McAllister: Tue Jul 13, 2010 06:04 AM
Posted Tue Jul 13, 2010 09:19 AM