Hey guys - I thought I'd vent to you all. I know there are people on here that'll atleast help me out with some supportive words, if not advice.
Lest fade back a bit: I'm at a church thing with my friends, "Guy" and "Girl 1", and some others.
So, "guy" likes this chick, "Girl 2", and was planning on asking her out before he met "girl 1". No big, right? Shit happens, and people change their minds on things. So, guy and girl 1 are hanging on eachother right infront of me. Pretty fucking hard to bear since I've liked her for a long time.
Girl 2 finds out about all this, Girl 1 finds out about girl 2, guy still manages to keep them both infatuated (how!?). Guy realizes he's a moron, goes for girl 2 - asked her out and all. She didnt say either way, since he was a dip and asked her out online. They're close and lovey dovey all the time - I figured it was a sure thing between them by now. All the time from him deciding to this post, I'm talking to girl 1 off and online for hours - completing digging her more and more, thinking she likes me too.
This evening, I had planned for Girl 1, me, and a few of my friends to hang out at a local place to watch my friend's first gig. Guy comes along. I'm feeling like shit as it is, from cold medicine, travel time, etc. etc. so I decide "I'm not going to try and flirt too much, if at all, since I feel like shit", so I dont. Guy starts doing the same shit with girl 1 that they did at the church event.
We get to my house, we're all watching TV, and Guy and Girl 1 are with eachother - yay -.-;: - and so I'm like "fuckin' 'a'". So I ask him, while they're being lovey dovey, "Hey what'd [Girl 2] say after you asked her out?" and he told me "nothing". My friend said Girl 1 looked pretty pissed. I didn't bother to watch what my tongue had done.
So now I'm stuck here, pissed and jealous, because Guy's not being a good friend to me, or either of the girls. He knows I like girl 1. Hell, I even like girl 2 a little. So the fact that they're both getting mistreated is sending me to the brink.
Also, the fact that both girls are being stupid and still want this guy is ticking me off.
I think I'm covering all sides - not just the bias "You're taking my girl" shit. If she wants him over me, that's her fuck up. But, am I wrong in thinking all this? In feeling cheated?
I dont think he deserves either of them. And sure as hell don't deserve getting the shaft by two friends in my own god damned living room.
Anyways - lemme know your opinions...
And in the end of it all, I'll be there to pick up and fix everyone's broken hearts if they need me to, but no one involved is gonna be there to do the same for me. The only person who will mend my own broken heart is me. Isn't that fucked up -.-
Posted Sat Nov 27, 2004 01:38 AM
I agree with you on this, you are getting severly cheated on this one. Girl 1 and Girl 2 should get together and beat the crap out of Guy with your help j/k. I hate it when people try to do that, have three or four girls on the sidelines because that's just wrong. Maybe you should tell Girl 1 about Guy and Girl 2, not tattle or anything, but just make it aware that she's not the only grape on the vine waiting to be plucked by Guy. Anyway, hope it works out for you in some way, but I can't really see how it can work out, anyay good luck.