My gf and this guy 'J' have a long history, before I came to live here, they were each others first time and had a relationship, she says he was her first love and she will never forget him, needless to say he has lived in the US for the past few years and they have had some cross the pond arguments have been through a lot. I am perfectly fine with this, as I knew she really feels for me too, but there is one big thing.
Next month this guy, 'J', will be coming to where we live, at this time we will have been together for 6 months. But, she wants to meet up with him and asked me if it was a problem, I didn't really answer as I am in a very tricky situation, but I said Yes, as I can't stop what she feels. But the next bit really troubled me, she asked if I would have a problem, if something happened between the two, predominantly I'm fairly sure this means only kissing. And I really don't know what to do? I can't change the way they feel about each other, but she is with me and not him. Her argumentation is that this is the last time she might ever see him.
This all happened whilst we were in bed last night, she managed to go to sleep but I had to lie there for the next hour and I still haven't got in off my mind.
I have then heard today through a rumor of my friends that he wants to have sex with her.
I really need some help, what should I do? She means the world to me and I really don't wanna lose her.
This post has been edited by bilbo8643: Wed Jul 14, 2010 03:41 PM