Posted Sat Jun 03, 2006 10:07 AM
I have heard there is such a thing as 'sexual energy', when two people are together (it doesn't imply they're a couple yet). I heard this from my ex-girlfriend. She says if either of the two feel uncomfortable kissing each other, then the sexual energy isn't at the same level. She said in her case, mine was a level higher than hers. But with the ex after her, I had no problems. I felt really cosy around her and we kissed without even thinking about it. This would mean our sexual energy was equal.
My question is: How do I sense if the girl I'm with has the same sexual energy as me, and what is this sexual energy?
She told me women can feel it, but she doesn't know if men can.
Posted Sat Jun 03, 2006 10:55 AM
So basically your question is just "how do I know if we're on the same level?"...
just try taking things a little bit further with something small. Like, if you have made out but not actually done anything sexual yet, try feelin or putting your hand down her pants. what are you comfortable with right now?
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