i like to cheat
Posted Fri Jul 16, 2010 06:51 AM
Posted Fri Jul 16, 2010 06:56 AM
Have you ever once considered her health or well being in this? Not only is it emotionally damaging (if she finds out), but what if you catch something and pass it along to her?
Posted Fri Jul 16, 2010 07:48 AM
Posted Fri Jul 16, 2010 10:19 AM
Good luck with that. Cheating almost always comes out in some way, after 20 years i'd still kick your ass to the curb without so much as a backwards glance. If the sex is not hot for you, i can imagine it really sucks for her and she's probably only doing it out of duty and has no idea what she's missing. I bet she could find somebody who would show her what hot sex is instead of going out and finding it with somebody else.
Somebody "new" doesn't necessarily make the sex hot, you're looking in the wrong place for what you need. Nor is it up to your wife to make sex "hot" for you two. I pity you both.
Posted Fri Jul 16, 2010 11:40 AM
That, my man, is up to you and your wife. If you can't think of a way to spice up your sex life in your own home, then you have some big problems. Like NO CREATIVITY. Or leave that wife of yours because marriage is not what you "like", or more accurately, you don't like all aspects of it and aren't willing to work on it...it's easier to go out and fuck whoever you find. Yuck. If you have no ways of making sex hot, and it's only hot when you cheat because it is with someone new, well - that is obviously going to wear out too, and you'll hop from one pussy to another seeking hot, and never find it because you aren't creating it.
As for your cheating, either stop and confess and see if she boots you out, or give her the freedom that you are already enjoying and leave. She doesn't need you to continue to bore her.
And yeah, YOU like to cheat. Ever thought about your wife's feelings on it? Why are you married, for fuck's sake (ffs, thanks Foxy!)?? For all the other benefits except the "hot" sex that you want? God I'm glad I never met anyone like you. And good luck finding someone who will be with the likes of you.... perhaps you'll find a like-minded married woman.
Posted Fri Jul 16, 2010 12:00 PM
I'd like to kick you in the gonads!
I think you're problem is having sex with your wife everyday. I've only been married 5 years, but at times I find myself getting kinda bored with our sex lives, and that's when I realize we've been doing it too much. When we go a few days it's good, when we go a week it's awesome, and if we manage to go longer than that I feel like I'm in heaven when it does happen. The way he talks to me during our encounters, and he touches me like it's the first time he has, and his obvious desire for me is hot, and him almost wanting to include every position known to man when we do finally encounter is also a turn on, and not to mention the orgasms are that much more intense...these are things that just don't seem to be there when we're having sex too much.
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Posted Tue Jul 27, 2010 02:20 PM
what did you want members to post? that they thought it was ok what you do?
Posted Wed Jul 28, 2010 12:16 AM
I bet that egotistic, selfish personality of yours is a real show stopper. I would wager a hefty sum that your own family and what friends you may have, call you a prick behind your back maybe even to your face...jokingly, of course, but not really.
Any douche bag can go out and get laid, but it takes a real man to be loyal and keep that romantic spark alive. Or at least talk to your wife, tell her how you feel, and end the marriage with honesty and a little integrity before you cheat. You are nothing more than a coward and a pussy, but you already know this. Behind all your bragging and big talk is a worthless shell of what is supposed to be a man.
Now go have a few drinks to build up your confidence, rehearse your speech a thousand times, and go tell your poor wife what a lowlife you are. I'm sure she already knows and it may even be a relief to her to finally have an out. This woman deserves better. She deserves respect, honesty, and a life without you.