Lesbian Wife Any others with bi spouse?
Posted Mon Jul 26, 2010 06:26 AM
I'm a guy and fully understand how many women think guys are just gross. Problem is, she lumped me into that category. I have been given permission to have sex with other women, or men. We love each other and share our emotional life and feelings. Our sex life is similar to lesbian sex. I don't fuck her, but she fucks me with a dildo or the strapon. Pleasing her with a vibe or oral is the only thing she wants, unless I can get her a nice pussy to eat. We never had the opportunity for a threesome, nor do I think it would ever happen. She would let me fix her up, but I'm not part of the equation. I'm cool with it, because , with what might seem like a dilema, I am having more orgasms than ever.
We still enjoy each other, our life, family and everthing else, but we have had a major adjustment to our sex lives.
Have any other couples strayed off the beaten track?
Posted Mon Jul 26, 2010 10:08 AM
do you think moving this topic to the relationship forum will get you more views and opinons? I do. If you want it moved, let me know by PM.
Posted Wed Jul 28, 2010 10:29 AM
Posted Thu Nov 04, 2010 01:20 PM
Since then she's had several lady lovers. Some have joined us for threesomes, some would let me watch but not take part, and a few didn't want me involved at all. (Those last ones didn't last long, as my wife wanted lady friends who she could be very open with around me). Anyway, seems to have worked out fine for us, but we've worked hard to keep an open communication, and to ensure our own sexual satisfaction with each other is priority 1.
My only concern in your case is that she seems to have put your needs second over her own, and that your needs are merely a way to get by so she can have her own fun. There's no give and take, no doing things "your way" from time to time. If you are fine with that OK, but it seems like she's just one step away from moving in with her lady.
Posted Sat Nov 06, 2010 02:29 AM
Posted Wed Nov 10, 2010 07:13 AM
Too often are we reading that people are not looking out for #1. Not that we are all selfless people.... and not that we should only be focused on ourselves, but many times we hear how someone is a doormat for their SO. There are no Martyr badges handed out at the end of the line. When we get off the train, we just disembark and that's it. Do yourself a favor and expect more in your life. She is not doing anything special for you and is likely to drop you at first chance.