I used to be here quite a bit, then I sort of stopped...and now I'm pretty sure I'll be here more then I was!! LOL
I'm 30 and my husband was 32...he passed away recently (and by recently, I mean on July 5, 2010). I am sad, yes and I miss him yes, but I'm also an extremely practical woman and I know I'd like to move on (or at least get laid!!) I'm not looking for a relationship at the moement, a fuck buddy would be nice, tho!
However, I'm thinking I might be doing this a bit too soon? Any responses on that?
I'm used to getting laid every nite, so this has been quite a dry spell for me (he was not sick very long, only about 3 weeks, and then he was in the hospital for a week...). Since we were married, I was not on birth control, I've started that back up and so in about a month I'll be good to go (as they say...)
I am ready to get laid...I *almost* did last Saturday nite, I'm not sure exactly why it didn't happen, I had condoms...so I'm not sure if it was that I was not taking the pill (hey at least I was honest about that!). The fact that my husband *just* died or if I was ahem...coming on too strong (I dunno tho, I mean, if a woman puts her hands down your pants, is that too strong of a come on?)
So, needing advice here...is it really just too soon? I can understand that...or was it the fact that I was completely honest about what i wanted? (I don't believe my looks had anything to do with it )
I've always had more of a mans outlook on sex (I'm in the bible belt...where women aren't supposed to do what I do...). Sex is sex...love is a whole 'nother thing...and trust me I wasn't looking for love Saturday nite, I was trying to get an itch scratched lol!
Also the guy was 5 years younger then I am...maybe it was an age thing with him? (tho I really don't think so...)
Any advice would be great!!! Thanks!
Edited to add: I was wondering if my avatar stayed It did...cool
This post has been edited by Double:D: Mon Jul 26, 2010 07:38 PM