Anal Sex Help
Posted Thu Jul 29, 2010 11:24 PM
The wife and I have tried anal sex 5 times now and it just never works. We used KY jelly to lube and I tried to go slow but it just ends up hurting her so we stop. It's not so important but we like sex and would like it to work.
Can some girls just not take anal?
Do you have suggestions?
Another thing is she hates getting her ass licked? What do you think about that?
Posted Fri Jul 30, 2010 08:25 AM
Posted Fri Jul 30, 2010 09:44 AM
Posted Fri Jul 30, 2010 11:40 AM
oh, lots of lube. if you think you have enough add a little more.
Posted Tue Aug 03, 2010 09:20 PM
Posted Wed Aug 04, 2010 01:22 AM
There is never too much lube during anal sex, the more the better in my opinion.
Also as everyone suggested on here, try to finger her first with your finger or something smaller. When my boyfriend did this first, I felt unease that he was putting his finger in my ass but it makes the actual anal penetration feel so much better.
Oh and about licking her ass. I mean when my boyfriend first did this and he loves to do this on me, I hated it becaue I felt uncomfortable that he was licking THAT part. You just have to make her feel comfortable. The more you make her feel sexy about these things, the better response she'll give.
Posted Tue Aug 10, 2010 05:07 PM
^Definitely. If she's not relaxed and won't or can't allow you inside her, it's going to hurt every time, and you'll never get it all the way inside her. She needs to actually relax those specific muscles - bearing down is a good idea.
Posted Sat Aug 21, 2010 08:35 AM
Posted Sat Aug 21, 2010 07:32 PM
Seems like a waste of nerve endings if it's not meant to be. Although, I do agree it is not for everyone.
Posted Mon Nov 07, 2011 07:04 PM
Also, some girls dont feel comfortable if they have recently, or need to use the bathroom. you need to get them at a time when they feel that its a comfortable and clean area.
Posted Mon Nov 07, 2011 08:57 PM
Posted Tue Nov 08, 2011 12:06 PM
Posted Tue Nov 08, 2011 01:05 PM
Posted Fri Nov 18, 2011 04:26 PM
Posted Tue Nov 22, 2011 07:38 AM
Posted Tue Nov 22, 2011 10:57 AM
started of with a finger then when she gets comfy with that use something bigger until you both feel relaxed about it and then try your cock... but each time use lube!
my girl noe enjoys it without lube but with only her pussy juices over my cock!! feels amasing for both of us!
Posted Thu Nov 24, 2011 09:03 AM
my sexpartner also tryed for the first time a dildo. just a small one. directly in the ass...
hurted a lot, but she was way to horny to remove it...
in a later stadium she tryed in the bad to put 2 fingers, but it dint work.
It was the possition in here case. So, now ik know that in here case, i need to get here realy horny and work it up...
Posted Thu Nov 24, 2011 03:55 PM
Posted Thu Nov 24, 2011 06:45 PM
And there is that "not meant to be" that could be a real point. Mr.DE and I have tried me receiving anal sex on-and-off for years. It was not until recently, with a partner with a slimmer penis, that I really, really found myself enjoying it. It is not that Mr.DE is good; his cock is just too uncomfortably thick for my anus. We do still sometimes try, but it is not quite as comfortable and easy as with the other partner's slimmer penis.