Our foreplay is more than sufficient, usually at least a half hour when I go down on her, and on occasion she will literally, be dripping wet; there will be spots on the sheets from her vaginal "sweat". She comments how good I am at it, and I believe I am, I have a few books, and have never had a problem (or so I believe) with past partners on bringing them to climax through oral stimulation. She has said several times that I am amazing at it, and that I am so good, blah blah blah, but I just cannot get her to cum.
Often times during oral sex, she says that she wants "me" and I tell her no a couple times, and eventually I cave. I don't know if it is relevant, but we have sex A LOT, probably 12-16 times a week, with us each splitting the initiative. She makes the move about half the time, I make the move to initiate the sex the other half of the time.
My questions are:
If she says it feels so good, why does she stop me short?
How do I ask her how to make her cum without making her feel pressured or uncomfortable?
When she says she wants me, what do I say to convince her to let me keep going?
This post has been edited by robot85: Wed Aug 04, 2010 03:41 AM