Anyway, my query is, being such a common topic, up till now i have told him its absolutely fine, and i have meant it, we cant wait and go again, but i guess i am starting to expect it now and its kind of spoiling the excitement of anticipating sex. Is there anyway to help this problem, without mentioning it and killing my boyfriends confidence and just making it worse? He is already a worrier, i'll have to tell him about 6 times that its ok each time it happens! and im pretty sure its partially happening because he is worrying about it already.
and/or does anyone have any good suggestions of how to successfully work our sex around this, ie find something to do while he's warming up again or whatever.
This post has been edited by Mysterious Kitten: Wed Aug 04, 2010 03:42 AM