Need advice..girlfriend completely silent during sex
Posted Sat Jul 08, 2006 02:22 PM
The thing she NEVER initiates sex, its always me and afterwards I always feel terrible because I feel like im forcing her into it. I think she just does it to make me happy and thats not something I want. I want her to enjoy it too, and I've tried to ask her what I can do and what turns her on so I can please her better, but she justs gets embarrassed and says she doesn't know. Anyone have any advice?
Posted Sat Jul 08, 2006 06:24 PM
anyways my guess would be that she's either nervous or afraid that anyone will hear that you are having sex etc
What you need to do is talk to her, ask her why she's so quiet, are you doing anything wrong? if so then have her tell her what she likes and disslikes, or ask her if she's nervous or afraid that anyone will hear maybe.
About that she never initiates to sex, i guess you should talk to her about that too, i had to refuse sex for a week until my girl took the step once...
You need to ask her whats the matter, why she's so quiet, tell her that you want her to tell you what feels good for her if what ur doing isnt feeling good (not saying that you are but just to be sure) if she escapes the subject tell her that its really important for you to know.
Thats what i think at least ^^ hope it helps
Posted Sat Jul 08, 2006 07:01 PM
Posted Sat Jul 08, 2006 07:26 PM
maybe she's just shy. or is she tense?
you could also try to make it more exciting, not just the same routine of bed, oral, screw, restaurants and movie. Try a long weekend trip together sometimes, or a trip to Disney World, or anything else that's exciting..even a walk in the park, working out together and stuff...That should losen her up maybe...besides constant communication...also don't be too nice and oblige to her every wish
Posted Sat Jul 08, 2006 07:47 PM
Posted Sat Jul 08, 2006 08:26 PM
Also she has never said anything like "wow that was great". A few times i've been like damn that was hot, she just kinda sits there and ignores what i said. Its a very wierd situation, when she orgasms she starts laughing...the first time i was like wtf is going on. She honestly makes me feel like im the worlds most terrible lover, just hoping thats not true lol, ive had many compliments in the past from more expressive girlfriends.
I'm 100% completely guilty of that. I'd do anything for this girl heh, maybe im too easy for her.
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