I have lots of questions
Posted Mon Jul 17, 2006 09:31 PM
Heres the deal. I'm a 21 male whos decent looking. not fat or anything. I don't have a girl or want one for that matter since im in college and am rather involved in a video game community that takes up a lot of my available time.
I got lots of questions that pass through my brain all the time.
1. Whats wrong with me: Family mostly gives me shit for not having a GF and whatnot. The answer is this. Girls cost to much time, money, and drama. Plus me being a guy It's not worth it which leads to my next question
2. I can still cum easy and fast: I have a theory and that is that im uncurcumsized but im on of those guys where the my head gets fully exposed becuase i got a nice 7" penis . I got a theory that cut males have less sensation hence less pleasure and take longer to cum. As opossed to us natural guys who still feel a good degree of sensation on the (what would be inside now outside when erect) inside of the foreskin and when pulled back along the shaft is added sensation. Has this been proved?
adding to question 1 and 2 I have a couple jelly/rubber vaginas that do the trick in like a minute or two. I still have to watch some porn to get full wood. But after all that my desire to want a GF goes away. it even overrides the desire to bond and cuddle and do all that other warm fuzzy stuff.
My older frined says, "my wife has taught things about myself I never would of known...." blah blah blah. But I don't know I guess. Maybe when I get older, I'll change hopefully. I don't wanna be the 30 year old virgin lol. I had sex a few times with 2 women BTW. The first one was a slut who i screwed on the first date, later skipped school to do her a few more times(i was dumb to turn down a threesome with her plump friend that day), got busted and didn't go see her a couple weeks after that. Later on her friend passes a note that shes braking up with me and later I hear that she got a yeast infection but not from me been too long. Probly from masturbsating too much lol.
The second one, I was scratching my 4 year itch on this plump girl from HS who never left me alone obviouly had a long time crush flirting and stuff. rathe annoying. So one day on her B-day after a big party, she spent the night in my Apt. So I gave her a B-day present, which she was all over. We did it a couple more times after that but i was trying to break it off. And it was after that point that i realized sex was not that satisfying or maybe it is and it was just bad sex.
3. whats the difference between good sex and bad sex- as long as you get to the top it's all good essentially right?
Am I the only guy who tales this outlook. How normal/abnormal am I. I feel like im gonna be one of those lone wolfs out there like this one guy at my work who just says "fuck em I got my own life" kinda thing.
Anybody who takes all the time to read all this and reply, thank you very much.
Posted Mon Jul 17, 2006 09:36 PM
Posted Mon Jul 17, 2006 09:42 PM
And as for Video games being more interesting then girls... try turning them off and getting out to some bars or something...
Posted Mon Jul 17, 2006 09:58 PM
here's how I look at whether I should try to date a girl or not:
I imagine that the girl has no pussy, and cannot give me sex in anyway. Then, would I still want to be around her?
If I can answer yes, then I know I have found someone special. But you are right, girls cost A LOT of money and time, and things get stale IMO with MOST girls. I have also had TERRIBLE experiences with girls, which adds to my lack of will power to seek a GF.
But girls give me a better feeling than my hand or some sex toy. And I'm not talking about just the sexual feeling. I love cuddling with a chick I care about.
Posted Mon Jul 17, 2006 11:13 PM
And I'm not that picky. I've gotten to know a couple of sweeties out there.
I forgot to mention this one chick i met in new york. we were both seniors from competitions. We fooled around a little bit but I spent the night with her that night and It did feel really nice just snuggling all close. I had this complete feeling for just that one night. We tried to make it a long distance thing for a few months but then she joined the friggin marines and i lost contact with her in bootcamp.
But right now untill I get financially stable, I think im gonna lay low till I get more disposable income. And in a perfect world, girls don't cost money. Im sure you guys have all seen this. Im not a woman hater. really.