Not Able to get Hard
Posted Sat Jul 22, 2006 02:42 PM
Posted Sun Jul 23, 2006 02:10 PM
Now what worked for me just happened, the basic point is once you get it once, you're home free. She always shaved her pussy so I thought I'd like to shave it for her which really suprised her, I got a large bowl with nice hot water and a towel, put wet the towel down and applied it to her pussy to nice warm and the hair soft and proceded to shave her. After I was done and in front of me was a bald as a baby's butt pussy I got incredibly horny and started eating her out. I slipped on a condom in hopes of a half-way decsent time and to my suprise I want all the way to climax. After that episode it was no problem.
Some side note, definitly don't drink b4 you do this, even now 10 yrs later if I drink I either can't get it up to save my life or if I can I can't climax.
Hope this helps.
Posted Sun Jul 23, 2006 02:16 PM
Posted Sun Jul 23, 2006 05:52 PM
Posted Tue Jul 25, 2006 12:38 AM
Posted Mon Sep 11, 2006 10:12 PM
Posted Mon Sep 11, 2006 10:16 PM
Posted Mon Sep 11, 2006 10:22 PM
When loss of erection occurs in the beginning of a relationship, or with young or inexperienced males, then it’s too early to call it a problem. You are probably just feeling a little nervous, scared, anxious, and excited - all at once. That’s normal, it’s common, and it’s ok. In the same way that thoughts and feelings alone can bring about an erection, they can also stifle one. Erections are vulnerable to distraction, nervousness, and anxiety. It takes awhile to feel safe, comfortable, and relaxed with someone.
Loss of erection can cause a lot of confusion, upset, or even panic in some guys, as our penis, which has up to this point been reliable and ready for duty at anytime, can suddenly go limp due to the nervousness. The more into the lady you are, the better the chance you have of losing your erection because you want everything to go well and want to be sure to please her. It’s ironic that it’s the woman you’d most want to please that you may have erection problems with because you want everything to be perfect for her.
When that happens to you, don’t sweat it. Just relax. The more you worry about your erection, the harder it will be to raise it and keep it up. This can snowball into a big problem if not handled right. The more you worry, the tougher it will be to maintain the erection. The tougher it is to maintain the erection, the more you’ll worry. Get it?
Many men seem to believe that during each sexual episode, you only get one shot at an erection. If it doesn’t happen, then the sex act is ruined and they are failures. If you have this viewpoint, then you may become very anxious if you lose your erection. Your anxiety only helps to create a self-fulfilling prophecy by making your erection less likely to occur. Get out of this frame of mind. If you lose your erection, then stay calm and confident. Try asking your partner for direct stimulation. If your erection comes back, great! If it doesn’t, it’s no big deal. Move on to other forms for mutual pleasure. You can try again later that day, the next day, or in a few days. If you have chosen your partner wisely, she will understand your nervousness and won’t make a big deal out of it. Remember, it’s likely that she’s very nervous, also. In most instances, your erection loss is probably less of a concern for her than the potential anxiety, anger, depression, frustration, confusion, and withdrawal you may exhibit as a result of it.
Don't make the mistake of thinking that sex is only about a penis in a vagina. If your penis isn’t cooperating, then there are still plenty of ways to make love without a hard penis. Maybe the erection will come back. Maybe it won't. Either way, don't make a big deal over it and this will work itself out with a little bit of time, patience, and practice. This would be a great opportunity to focus on some touching, kissing, massages, or oral sex. A penis in a vagina isn’t even the most efficient or effective way to pleasure most women, anyway.
If a guy knows that he can pleasure his lady regardless of the presence of his erection, then he’s much less likely to worry about achieving one, which incidentally makes it more likely that he will achieve one. This makes it possible for him to be completely focused and in the moment, and it makes him a better, more confident lover.
I hope that helps!
Posted Tue Sep 12, 2006 10:51 AM