My other half seems to have become obsessed with calling and texting chatlines, (i have no idea if thats a real number so i wouldnt try it out!) but also the talking chat lines and the live video calling from his mobile.
I have known about this for several months, but after seeing his latest phone bill (nearly £200) i have realised how often he is doing it.
Im very easy going and dont particulary care if he uses them every now and then for the benefit of a wanking session, but have now realised he is calling texting them at every opportunity, thanks to the itemised bill - if i leave before him to go to work, at lunch if hes home alone, if im working late, when he says hes at the gym, even in the evenings when im outside having a cigarette (though how he was calling them when i was in the flat took me some time to work out!)
This pisses me off for 2 reasons
1. We are meant to be saving for our wedding, fair enough he pays his own phone bill, but he cant really afford it and he would be the 1st to moan at me if i spend this amount each month on new shoes etc.
2. We have been together some time and i have always had a much higher sex drive than him, now suddenly he seems to be thinking about sex every spare moment of the day - as long as hes not with me and thats taking the pee.
The thing is i dont think hes even calling them to have a wank, as a lot of the calls dont last that long and when im outside smoking for etc, i cant believe that he manages to get the job done in that time, so why else would a guy call them??
Any opinions on why a man would rather talk dirty to a stranger whose getting paid then his girlfriend very much appreciated! The 2 friends i have mentioned this 2, have suggested perhaps hes gay and talking to men or has some strange sexual fetish he cant tell me about. I dont think its either of these as i have also found lots of pics of naked ladys on his phone and i am very experimental in bed, so it would have to be something very weird for him to be unable to tell me!
Opinions and advice requested!
This post has been edited by Noxie: Thu Sep 09, 2010 11:35 AM
Reason for edit:: Removed phone number.