loss of libido
Posted Wed Sep 13, 2006 01:31 AM
Posted Wed Sep 13, 2006 01:51 AM
OK if you have a wall-mart, or a wallgreens close to where you live go to the womens section and find a product called finally. it is a cream that you rub on your clitoris that is suppose to make you orgasm sooner and more often. Do not fall in love with the cream though. Just kidding.
Posted Wed Sep 13, 2006 01:54 AM
Stress is a major libido killer. Do you think that might be effecting things? Do you diet too much? Eat healthy and enough overall calories and vitamins to give your body everything it needs to produce enough testosterone?
I also suggest making an appointment with your doctor and getting your levels of total testosterone and free tesosterone checked to make sure it falls in the normal or high normal range for a healthy male.
Have you ever suffered from depression or any other mental illness. How is your life otherwise? We need more info. Something is causing your libido to be at a very low point.
Posted Wed Sep 13, 2006 01:58 AM
Posted Wed Sep 13, 2006 02:04 AM
Posted Wed Sep 13, 2006 02:11 AM
I still say get a complete hormonal workup from a good endocrinologist. There is no reason you should have to be deprived of something you really want.
Are you on birth control? Or have you been in the recent past? That can really lower drive for some women. And I take it you are not dieting...that can lower libido in both men and women.
There are some good otc supplements that 'may' help both men and women to increase libido. Maca, fenugreek, tongkat ali, avena sativa, tribulus, and rhodiola rosea are some good examples. You can try something like that at GNC if there is one close to you. If it doesn't work just keep your receipt and get a complete refund within 30 days of purchase by just returning the receipt and at least one pill left in the container. I suggest Steel Libido is not a bad product to try but you may want to venture into the male virility section and get some men's stuff too.
Posted Wed Sep 13, 2006 01:26 PM
How can you achieve this? I've tried by stimulating her clitoris with my tongue and fingering her using the come here motion, but that just doesn't get her off. I can easily give her C-spot orgasms, but I can't get her off with the G-spot at the same time.
I read a lot too. Maxim and FHM used to be really good tools when it came to sexual advice, but with all the extensions (Stuff, Blender, etc.), the magazines are watered down and the content isn't what it used to be.
Posted Wed Sep 13, 2006 05:23 PM
Posted Wed Sep 13, 2006 05:55 PM
If you want to give her a real powerful G-Spot orgasm it is best to get her aroused by stimulating her breast and clit at first and then just massage her G-Spot hard with your fingers until she is about to have an orgasm. Then start licking or rubbing her clit real real fast. And start massaging her G-Spot harder and faster. When she has her first orgasm you can keep doing everything until she has multiple orgasms.
Always remember to use hard pressure when massaging the G-Spot.
Posted Wed Sep 13, 2006 06:00 PM
Could it be that you may be an lesbian and your husband doesn't really turn you on and since your a religious person you only got married to try to hide the fact you like women.
Posted Thu Sep 14, 2006 08:08 AM